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We wanted to make a baby before we were dating. Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations.

1. Loneliness

One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who NEEDS your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point.

2. Hope

We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place.

3. Instinctual Reproduction

This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race.

5. Family

Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love.

5. Intimacy

There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and ESPECIALLY if it's for the purpose of procreation.

I was good friends with a guy, he was in the same course as me. So I trusted him. He showed me respect. He came to my house and was sooo grateful I let him in my house. Which I thought was weird because we get along.

He told me how his dad is in prison and is part of a gang in Brasil and how he (my friend) was part responsible for the murder of someone when he was a young teenager. I didn’t expect any of this shit.

I’m not sure what to believe. We’re in good medical careers where this is unheard of. But….. I’m just shocked, he’s a good guy but I let him into my house 🤮 I hate criminals.

I’m confused. He was telling me how I accepted him. I have other friends who have no clue and friends with him.

I’m not sure what to think. How can he afford so much money to go to a private medical school. He’s broke he was telling me.