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I feel like this is pretty obvious but the best examples of healthy relationships come from the couples I know where the women is willing to contribute the same if not more depending on the current situations.

2 samples...

1 - I have friend who bought a house with his partner almost 2 years ago, his girlfriend paid more for the downpayment and is paying more for the mortgage right now because she is further along in her career and is making more money consistently then he is. They worked out a deal where he will eventually pay more for the mortgage & contribute more when his career eventually takes off.

2 - I have a friend on the verge of getting married and he had to move in with his wife to be sooner than expected because his work & student visa got screwed up at the end of 2021, since then he has been living with his girlfriend and she has been taking care of him financially until he gets full citizenship & is able to work.

Based off of those and other examples, I've notice that the 50/50 & the give/take method of a relationship works the best.

What are your thoughts?

Hello I'm 20 years old and in college majoring in electoral engineering. I have a friend in college who is 23 years old and he's a veteran from the air Force. He recently told me that me and my girlfriend are not going to last and we're going to break up eventually. My friend told me that when he was younger, he was made fun of by girls back in school (including high school for being overweight). before and during the military, he tried to get with women, but he got rejected a lot by women. He's now fit and now he's trying to take advantage over it. He said that he's trying to hookup with most girls as possible. He only goes for girls who looks for relationships to use them and to make the girl feel bad once he's done with him (because the girl was looking for a relationship; not a hookup). He said it's not fair how back then when he was younger everyone else was getting in relationships while he was single and kept getting rejected. I keep telling him what he is doing is wrong, but he won't listen to me.

Hello I'm 20 years old and in college majoring in business administration. I have a friend in college who is 23 years old and he's a veteran from the air Force. He recently told me that me and my girlfriend are not going to last and we're going to break up eventually. My friend told me that when he was younger, he was made fun of by girls back in school (including high school for being overweight). before the military, he tried to get with women, but he got rejected a lot by women. He's now fit and now he's trying to take advantage over it. He said that he's trying to hookup with most girls as possible. He only goes for girls who looks for relationships to use them and to make the girl feel bad once he's done with him (because the girl was looking for a relationship; not a hookup). He said it's not fair how back then when he was younger everyone else was getting in relationships while he was single. I keep telling him what he is doing is wrong, but he won't listen to me.