6 months and we still haven’t had sex?

Anonymous
I’ve been dating this guy for 6 months and we’ve been an official couple for 2.5 months.
We get on really well - he’s so romantic, loving, caring, funny, generous etc. It’s the best and healthiest relationship I’ve been in.

However, we haven’t had sex. We haven’t even performed ANY sexual acts. We kiss and sometimes he’ll touch my breasts and that’s it.

I’ve practically moved into his place and we see each other every day.

We’ve had a few conversations about it and he just gets really awkward. He’s explained he’s gone through some trauma in the past so it makes him ‘paranoid’. But he won’t go into any more detail.

I’ve been super patient and not rushed him into anything but I’m getting a bit frustrated now.. he’s had girlfriends and hook ups in the past (however he’s never had anything as serious as our relationship).

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced something like this? What do I do?
6 months and we still haven’t had sex?
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