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My father died early without a will, and his estate was split between my sister and I. She got an extra $45,000 for being 17.5 when he died, because minors here automatically get that amount first out of everything in probate. Then, we split whatever is left after that.

I took my portion and bought his house from the estate. Part of that went to my sister as well. So, I think she ended up with about $80k cash, and I walked away with the house. I believe about $27k that I put down for the deposit was my total inheritance. The house wasn't worth much after paying off the mortgage, and it needed repairs.

Later, my dad's parents died and didn't leave me anything. So, I guess the 3k loan my grandmother forgave before she died counts. If I'd known, I wouldn't have paid back the other 2k the month before, and it would have been 5k. It's a bit annoying because my grandparents kept promising an inheritance and left nothing to me and everything to my uncle. They could have just never made empty promises... I wouldn't have expected anything if they didn't bring it up multiple times. Just feels like lies and betrayal.

My great grandfather left my brother and I $50k in elementary school, but my uncle stole it and spent it since he was in charge of the estate.

I don't expect anyone else to leave anything. Maybe a rug I requested from my in-laws and family pictures from my Nana. If they do then great surprise, if not then no biggie. So, I suppose about $30k total that I actually got.

And if they also spent time together outside of work with other coworkers? I know a few coworkers that do this and I’m wondering if I am too jealous and conservative or if they are just fuxked because I would never tolerate this

I was on a Christian dating app, and I found a guy who lived close to me to hang out with in person. We both desire to be married. During the 1st date, we talked about our pasts, like dating/sexual history, family life, and the basics. We briefly talked about our faiths and encounters/revelations, but we didn't dive into that. He doesn't text super often when we are not together, so I started conversations a couple of times to get to know him more during our time apart. He wanted to see me 3 days ago, so we met and had a great time. I still don't fully understand some awkward moments, like him not feeling comfortable picking up a phone call from someone I didn't know while I was with him. I told him I can give him privacy, and he insisted it was okay, but his mood had changed drastically. Besides that, we spent 5 hours together and bonded a lot more, even though we didn't mention our faith at all during that time.

I told him I liked him while we were hanging out, and he said he liked me too. I asked if he wanted to go ahead and start a relationship with me since it was fair to consider how much we were attracted to each other during that time. He said he wanted to go on more dates before we reached that point, which I am fine with. He told me after the date that he had lots of fun, but the following day, I felt we weren't discussing the important things that should've been covered on the 1st date, like faith. I sent him a message asking him to pray about getting God's perspective about us before continuing to ensure that we are compatible. He left me on read, and I had to send a clarifying message the next day letting him know that I didn't mean harm with that last message and apologized for coming off strong. He said it was alright, he understood, but he had never heard someone praying for that. I thanked him and told him I had heard people receiving that information from God before, but I realized that people's experiences can differ. He left me on read again.