Search Results: hurt in relationships

Changing for Your Partner is Not as Bad as People Claim: The Myths and the Reality

We've all heard those familiar phrases, “Never change for anyone” or “If someone wants you to change for them, they don’t really love you.” They’re the kind of advice tossed around like it’s gospel truth. But let’s take a...

averageteaenjoyer1

Xper 1 Age: 25

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What should I do?

So, I have had a crush on this guy since last year. We’re both in high school, and we’re both in AVID (reasons for this detail will come up later). He’s really sweet, funny, smart, and he’s an overall gentleman. He gets...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Break up went from being mutual to being very toxic, how to I handle this now?

This all happened a few hours ago sadly. Been with my man for just little under a year. For the most part i was pretty happy but he was a very detached sort of person where as i enjoy love language quite a lot. About...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I (21M) cannot understand this woman (31F). What can be done in this situation?

Basically, I go to a gym where she is my trainer's girlfriend. We all became extremely good friends and we have kind of an older sister and younger brother kind of relationship. She is a very friendly and sweet lady and I...

Emmamma

Xper 1 Age: 25

I (21M) cannot understand this woman (31F). What can be done?

Emmamma

Xper 1 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Ghosted, left on location, reached out and got a response, why the change of behavior?

So this guy and I became exclusive pretty early on as our connection was very deep. I trusted him, and he trusted me. We were together for three months. He had a lot of health issues going on (2 broken hips and a knee) he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever had someone tell you they love you and actually believe they do?

Not just romantically in any relationship I personally have never had somone love me and actually mean it. The phrase means nothing to me anymore just something hollow and meaningless to be tossed around. In my opinion...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ghosted then finally got a response?

Emilyqew

Xper 5 Age: 28

Relationship issues - am I overreacting or within reason to be upset?

I don't know if I'm overreacting, being too sensitive, or within my rights here, so I wanted to seek out opinions from others. I have a week old baby and am a first time mother. Overall, I think I'm doing good. I know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How to tell my best friend that I am in a relationship?

I used to have a crush on my best friend, but he moved and said he would never be interested in a long distance relationship. I accepted it, but was sad at the time. We stayed friends and I never brought up my feelings...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What is your personal opinion on the topic of suicide in the context of this situation?

So there was this male social media influencer who young women loved because he was attractive. To make a long story short, the guy had mental issues. He had a girlfriend who he was abusive toward in many ways. Most...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Ghosted… after meeting the parents and everything?

So I met this guy on bumble, we went out for three months. He said he was planning on asking me to be his girlfriend when the time was right. I always enjoyed my time with him, but he seemed to get more and more distant....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not sure if I messed it up with a girl i’ve liked for a while. Can I get her back or just leave her alone?

So, I am a manager at a pub and a girl started a few months ago, we found out we were both single and we started flirting during work here and there. She seemed to be into me and mentioned that she’d seen me on hinge etc...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m finding it so difficult to get over my ex, I’m not sure what to do?

Last November my ex girlfriend ended our relationship due to a few problems. I was quite insecure and I pushed her away. We were only together for 10 months but it was very intense, we spoke a lot about the future, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hobbies & Leisure

How do you deal with an avoidant attachment personality relationship partner/ situationship? Recently I realized they have that personality?

I realize the only way is to leave. Thinking it over and understanding this relationship is going nowhere, how do you stop thinking of that person? I won't be reaching out to her anymore, yet the process of grieving the...

NeverTrustingAgain

Xper 1 Age: 36

Fighting for a relationship that's breaking me?

I’ve been struggling with my fiancée’s behavior, and I’m at a loss for what to do. It feels like she’s constantly unsure about how she feels toward me. One moment, she’s affectionate and loving, and the next, she’s...

Lurix

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

Why is he doing that?

I need your advice. A few days ago, I found that my boyfriend had put a like on a video on Instagram, and the video was talking about another girl, and it literally said: The owner of the letter... Everything about her is...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I risk it all and trust her or not? This is my first relationship and it’s also long-distance?

My girlfriend knows I have trust issues and we are in the long distance relationship. She says that she feels like I don’t trust her because I said that I wouldn’t feel comfortable with her going out to parties flying out...

Anonymous

(25-29)