Break Up & Divorce

Ghosted then finally got a response?

So this guy and I became exclusive pretty early on as our connection was very deep. I trusted him, and he trusted me. We were together for three months. He had a lot of health issues going on (2 broken hips and a knee) he served in the military. He was soon to be let out of the army in a year. I was there for his first hip surgery and brought him flowers, a weighted blanket, and met his mom. He talked about bringing me to his home state and how much he cared. But he stopped texting me good mornings and good nights. I had a little anxiety over this relationship but pushed it down. We always joked and enjoyed our time together, I spent the night at this place, and we were able to talk about deep subjects. His friends wanted him to move with them, and he said to me I am not moving. One day out of the blue he ghosted me, kept his location on but didn’t message me. We went from talking everyday and an occasional phone call to nothing. The weekend previous I had spent the night and mentioned my friend wanting me to pick her a guy out on bumble and he said well you had luck and I said I guess due to him not being my boyfriend. Finally after a few days, I stopped sharing my location and he did it in a way I wouldn’t get a notification he stopped sharing, he would view my stories and everything. He continues to to this day. Never removed me off of his socials. But I finally reached out after a week and he said he wasn’t ready for a relationship, or anything at all. He said maybe he was being stupid and would regret it later and he did plan to move and leave and didn’t want to lead me on. How could a guy, introduce me to his mom, and do everything a boyfriend did than ghost me. I drove an hour and a half to and from his house to spend time with him during his recovery, and was there and was supportive. He also said I was the sweetest person he’s ever met. I don’t understand the change help. Was he just using me? I devoted a life of time, and energy and it just hurts.

Ghosted then finally got a response?
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