Search Results: the chase

Is this playing games or ignoring?

She was after me. But eventually drifted apart. The problem was not her but me. I was wishy washy and didn't know what I wanted. I did hurt her a lot thinking she would go away. But she was damn committed to me. Now she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are avoidants worth putting effort into & are they happiest?

Okay so first of all avoidants are people with avoidant attachment styles who say verbally that they want affection and love but show otherwise. They are either unavaliable (physically or mentally), difficult to please,...

Kaamraj

Explorer Age: 36

Why are Latinas so confusing?

I’ve dated women from various backgrounds, but I find Latinas the most confusing. For instance, I was attending a luncheon and a woman named Jasmine came to sit next to me. We seemed to be vibing so I asked for her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Thought about this girl ghosting me?

A girl from my workplace from a different department said to her friends i am handsome and got great personality. Therefore, I assumed I should ask for her phone number since we have known each other for a while now and I...

magicturtle

Xper 4 Age: 23

Education & Career

How do I get respect off my male colleagues without being seen as a bitch?

I work my arse off and come to work pretty much everyday for the last 3 years and I'm always kind and respectful towards everyone but I learnt very early on in my adult life but being kind gets you know were especially as...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

The guy has NPD and I have the same borderline. I thought he discarded me but Im doubting it. What are the chances that I have triggered?

1. When I rejected him he was begging. 2. When I returned, he made me beg, cry and obviously devalue and gaslight 3. He was chasing all who devalued (chasing as in, appreciating the company of all those who didn't value...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, how often do you like communication?

I’ve been seeing a guy for quite some time and he’s always the one to reach out. He complains that I don’t ever reach out to him first but I just feel awkward doing it for some reason. How often should I reach out to him...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Will accepting job offer put in me a bad place since my ex will be my colleague?

My ex was against me working. He has narcissistic tendencies ranging from love bombing to emotional neglect to acting cool when things fall apart. Now I am getting a new job offer that will eventually allow me to move...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

What the fuck is so wonderful about coffee?

I see t-shirts raving about coffee, meme's raving about coffee, people going nuts over how they can't start their day without coffee! People that make videos suggest that you buy them coffee! What the fuck? You don't have...

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 58

Why was this overweight waitress kept looking at me when there was an African American who was WHY better looking then me?

Yesterday evening, I was on my laptop going through my emails from work at a local diner with free wifi. I noticed an overweight female waitress couldn't stop looking at me, and there was an African American who was WHY...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it look like Im chasing my ex to his workplace?

I rejected him initially and he was bitter about it. So much that he carries it still after 10 years. Later I proposed and got rejected. However there was always an element of toxicity, possessiveness and ownership from...

Anonymous

(18-24)

In INCEL actually a thing? Is it mostly guys?

And why? I have read this is a growing faction but I don’t know what the stats are. First of all, most people just aren’t right sized in their minds and would be much happier if they were. I have a buddy. Married. Great...

RyanR03

Xper 4 Age: 50

I am used to chasing affection from girls. Why do I feel that something is wrong with my current girlfriend because she wants me more than I want her?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Entertainment & Arts

Do you also like this joke?

A cop shuttle grabbed a speeding space car, using a tractor beam. The cop asked: "do you know how fast you were going?" Guy: "Yes, the speed of sound." Cop: if you knew, why did i need to chase you! Guy, you can't blame...

strateguy632

Master Age: 50

A cop shuttle grabbed a speeding space car, using a tractor beam. The cop asked: "do you know how fast you were going?" Guy: "Yes, the speed of sound." Cop: if you knew, why did i need

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Why does this dude get so mad after sex but always come back for more?

I’ve been hooking up with this dude since 2020. For the most part it’s just been casual sex which I came to terms with after liking him a lot and it went no where. I went a full year without talking to him and he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it love or lust or ego?

Initially he chased me and I rejected Then I chased him and he rejected Soon we thought we would be flings and no strings. He was on dating apps with no dates. I was loyal but he dismissed my love. And when he came to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Ladies and gentlemen do you realize when all you make it is about you you chase off anyone who has something to offer?

I’m sorry. But when you expect someone to focus all on you and you don’t have anything to offer in return. People who have options are gonna go for the best one. Nobody wants a one sided relationship. Stop being a...

Anonymous

(30-35)