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For context, we met up for first time from app yesterday & had two calls earlier this week. I was questioning if he was interested to begin with bc with the calls earlier this week, he’s the one that ended them in less than 30 min. And yesterday, he ended the dinner too because he “knew I had somewhere to go & didn’t want to hold me back” (told him I had to go out of town with family & would need to leave in the night). I haven’t heard from him since, he drove 45 min to meet me at a local restaurant, paid for the bill, walked me to my car & hugged me twice (in my opinion all common courtesy). He asked most of the questions, by now I’m just used to the guy reaching out maybe an hr after meeting up telling me they want to see me again or at least wanting to make sure I got home safely. I deleted the app yesterday but still have him on discord, he shared his # when we spoke on the phone earlier this week but I hid mine for safety reasons. Honestly I’m not interested in seeing him again, I just hate rejection. Also when we were msging earlier on, we didn’t talk consistently throughout the day like I’m used to with other people I’d speak with before. I’ve become lower effort in that sense bc I’m not as invested but if a guy is interested he’d pursue. Last thing I’ll add is he asked me maybe 2-3x if I had new years plans & kept telling him not sure yet/might do something with family. I can’t anymore 🙄. I’m giving it a week & if I don’t hear back from him, I’m deleting him from discord.

I’ve been living with my fiancé and his grandma for about 7 months now. Lately she has been getting even sicker (she’s on oxygen 24/7) so that also contributes to her having some breathing issues as well. It’s been a few days since she’s been back home from the hospital since her last visit not too long ago. Everything has been turned upside down!

No drama but everything is about her. I work full time M-F get home at 6pm so majority of my time is there since he doesn’t work but get $ monthly. She was already dependent on him but now it’s worse! He has to feed her, and walk her to the bathroom, clean up after her and clean the house all the time.

NYE was the first time in days we’ve spent more than 1 hr together.. IN THE SAME DAMN HOUSE!!! I’ve been asking him for months for dates, more than 2hrs of quality time, to get away from the house since his grandma is home ALLL the time!! We have no privacy and no peace and quiet at all cause he’s always chasing after her. Anytime we leave the house together it’s pretty much for her benefit not for a good time.

I don’t want to sound selfish but I’ve been helping him before her health declined but it makes me not want to help since there hasn’t been any balance in our relationship. It’s all about her and did I forget to add we’ve only slept in the same bed 5 times the whole 7 months I’ve been here.
I explain to him I want things to change that I want to go out and do things but I get an okay and nothing changes.

We had plans to spend the night at a hotel for NYE but had to cancel cause she need him on the hour by the hour 🙄. Our sex is always good but I’m checked out because if you can find time to have sex with me you can set aside more than an hour of your time!

We had a pregnancy scare but I’m thankful I’m not pregnant because I’d honestly leave this house. Myself nor my baby will sit there and be on the back burner. Not for no no one!!

!!! please no judgement!!

For context, we met up for first time from app yesterday & had two calls earlier this week. I was questioning if he was interested to begin with bc with the calls earlier this week, he’s the one that ended them in less than 30 min. And yesterday, he ended the dinner too because he “knew I had somewhere to go & didn’t want to hold me back” (told him I had to go out of town with family & would need to leave in the night). I haven’t heard from him since, he drove 45 min to meet me at a local restaurant, paid for the bill, walked me to my car & hugged me twice (in my opinion all common courtesy). He asked most of the questions, by now I’m just used to the guy reaching out maybe an hr after meeting up telling me they want to see me again or at least wanting to make sure I got home safely. I deleted the app yesterday but still have him on discord, he shared his # when we spoke on the phone earlier this week but I hid mine for safety reasons. Honestly I’m not interested in seeing him again, I just hate rejection. Also when we were msging earlier on, we didn’t talk consistently throughout the day like I’m used to with other people I’d speak with in the past. I’ve become lower effort in that sense bc I’m not as invested but if a guy is interested he’d pursue. Last thing I’ll add is he asked me maybe 2-3x if I had new years plans & kept telling him not sure yet/might do something with family. I can’t anymore 🙄. I’m giving it a week & if I don’t hear back from him, I’m deleting him from discord.