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Hi I’m new to GAG this is my first question being posted. My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex. We have even less sex than old couples. 95% of the time she wants to cuddle without sex. I’ve tried talking to her and she always come up with excuses one after another. So in this question I’m going to share with you her excuses and why I’m frustrated.

• 1. Is that we don’t spend enough time together: I've been trying to spend all my spare time with her. Now I’m over at her house almost every day to a point where people think I live there. Nothing changed!
• 2. Is my work schedule: I used to work evenings and she’d complain that I come to her house too late and she’s tired. I switched to morning shifts 3 months ago. Nothing changed!
• 3. I don’t do enough around her house: For example, she wants me to clean her house and do repairs. I try to clean up all her messes. I’ve even learnt a few carpentry skills to repair her house. Nothing Changed!
• 4. Her work is too stressful:Now she says we can only have sex on our days off because her job is stressful and she needs to sleep after work!

Now she’s telling that sex doesn’t interest her and she can live without sex. Funny that she says that because, she one time dated 2 guys at once. This was like 8 years ago.

Her best friend told me she used to come to her crying because her exe boyfriend never wanted to have sex with her. And how she went and got relationship counselling.

I’m wondering if I should stay or if I should break up with her. I’m also wondering if she’s cheating. Can this be fixed? Let me know in the comments🙂

I like to think a girlfriend is temporary even if I have permanent intentions. As men we never know the girls intentions and whether they are subject to change. Today's forever can mean the end of it X time later.

What's the point of not considering a girlfriend to be yours truly forever and ever? No surprises and setbacks. There is a reason I intend to listen to LMFAO Party Rock Athem, not Juice WRLD all girls are the same.

Can't tell them about it. They will be upset I guarantee it. They won't understand, that as men we are on our own ⚠ and therefore it serves as a protective mechanism. These are some of the darker things some men are actively not telling women.

There is a saying "She's not really yours. It's just your turn now".

Story Time: One time I used to have a "girlfriend", who claimed I was hers and all that mushy stuff about being together. But then she ghosted me completely and most likely cheated on me too. Eventually I got over it 100% but the price of such surprises is too high for me to risk once more. It's been 5 years.

Never again. I can't. Simple as that.