I have been feeling sexually frustrated. Normally we'd have a lot of sex. We haven't had sex in 9 days. We don't live together. We live a half hour from each other. He spent the night on Saturday and when I tried to initiate sex he got mad and said he was exhausted and wanted to just go to sleep. I don't get why he came over just to go to sleep. There was no sex, cuddling, kissing, nothing. I feel like he doesn't want or love me anymore even though he said that he does. Sunday was the first time in 9 days that he pulled me to him, hugged me, and kissed me. I wanted him inside me so bad when he kissed me but he went home because he had to work. He said we're going to have sex again but I don't know. I feel like he's torturing me for some reason or is cheating. I feel like I want to break up with him. I'm not some dried up old prune. Sex is pretty important to me. Normally we'd do it a lot, even during my period. Do men ever get too tired to have sex or could he be cheating?
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Yes, guys can be too tired for sex. In those cases, sometimes we try anyway, though it's when when you girls take charge.
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He likely went to see you, since he just felt your presence was comforting to him after an exhausting day of work. Quality time at home with someone doesn't always mean doing physical stuff, but just hanging out with each other.
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If he is in your age range I think he is truly tired. Guys peak at 18.
Yes. Humans need sleep.
absolutely they can
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