If he's the one who left me why is he angry that I've moved on, am happy, and are now getting married?

[Anonymous]

I was with my ex for 2 years. the first year and half was some of the happiest time of my life. but the last six months our whole lives just went to hell. he left me and went back to his ex-girlfriend. (who I eventually found out that he had had some type of communication with the whole time) well a month later we got back together. we began trying to work things out and things looked hopeful, and then she showed up pregnant. I was absolutely devastated. after that he left me and moved in with her. I didn't hear from him for over a month. then he began this pattern of every month he just shows up and tells me that he can't wait to leave her when he can afford to move out on his own. he stay for about a weekend and then go home on monday. well I eventually had enough and told him to go back and let me get on with my life. well I didn't hear from him for 6 months and during that 6 months the man who I had been seeing for around a year asked me to marry him and I said yes. I couldn't be happier. well the my ex calls me and we just get to talking about life his new baby and he starts complaining about the childs mother and how he hates being with her or even around her. well I plainly told him that I was tired of hearing that bull crap and that if he wants to leave he would have left a long time ago. well when I say all of this he flips out and says that he will never call me again. I say do you honestly think I care? after everything that you have put me through? I told him that I was getting married in april so to just stop it. when I tell him that he flips out and says someof the most hateful things that nayone has ever said to me. he said that I was a joke and that anyone who was stupid enough to marry me was topo. he said that all I was good for was sex and that my husband would see that and leave me too. I told him that nothing he said could hurt me. he then said more hurtful things. that he just used me the whole time we were together. I know that this wasn't true. because if anyone used anyone I used him at first. why did he act that way? why couldn't he just be happy for me?

[hereigoagain]

b.c men are selfish and immature. I can attest to this situation and three years of the b.s. It sounds all to fimiliar.all he did was lie to get what he wanted. I bet he told her some b.s too. I absolutely hate the fact men act this way and I do feel your pain. He can't be happy for you b.c your not giving him what he wants anymore and just like A LITTLE CHILD pitched a hissy fit at the mere thought he didn't get his way. hate to say men think like that but its true and women like us need to be smarter and stop letting spoiled little boys ruin our lives. Congrats and do what makes you happy and don't give it a sec thought!

[causshd1]

He acted this way because he's immature. I went through a similar situation, but the actual relationship only last almost a year. I just was smart enough due to past relationships, not to take him back. I told my ex I'm moving on and he told me I was a hoe, I was easy, he was using me, etc. But at the end of the day, while he may or may not have meant what he said, he wanted you to feel like he felt- he wanted you to hurt like he was hurting. No worry's though. It was his fault he wasn't mature enough to be responsible and make a choice. I wish you many blessings in your future married life!

[EliBaby]

Tsk tsk. He's angry at the fact that you won't be taking him back in your life. Maybe a bit of jealously? Either way, don't listen to him. You're happy and that's all that matters. He sent your emotions through a roller coaster. No man is worth anyones time if he has the guts to do that. Be happy and stay happy with your fiance and get married. Just goes to show what a complete moron your ex is. And in actuality, it doesn't even seem like your ex is ready to settle down anytime soon. So do your thing! :)

[Ivahn-LeeVelkonsson]

hahahahhaha well well well this guy of urs must be inlove with you ayeh , but had a bad way of showin it ayeh, he's trynnah come back to you but his mistakes are makin it harder for you too to go back together am I right or wrong ?

so yeah get married move one and eventualy hell move on ,

[thatoneguy5001]

This kind of behavior kind of tells me the guy is an egomaniac. He doesn't like the feeling that he's not irreplaceable. Tell the asshat to get over himself, and then stop giving him attention.