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Search Results: control in relationship
Should I get married?
I’m 24 moving to another state to live with my fiancé and his grand mother…not by choice but for family reasons. She’s expecting me to ask her how she feels about me moving there. Now don’t get me wrong. I respect my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do I have a chance at getting him back?
My boyfriend and I broke up. We’d only been dating 2 months but he just recently told me he loved me for the first time. Three days later (and several I love yous later), we broke up after a conversation about ideas for...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you Girls’ get turned on when your man puts you in your place? Not in a asshole way just a masculine way?
This seems to work for me with Girls’ when I feel a girl is being selfish and not wearing my shoes like she expects me to wear hers , I will express my feelings of concern to her , and she more than likely gets upset and...
Why rejection is a good thing!
Well I'm on a two hour train ride ... so let's do a myTake. (On my phone, without my research and after years of not writing any myTakes.. may I add) (Plus additional info: I'm going to stop proofreading and stop changing...
What do you consider controlling behavior in a relationship & what do you consider to be red flags of controlling behavior that will ONLY escalate?
Controlling behavior never descalates, anyone who tells you that it does is an idiot. It can be managed but the only way to descalate actual controlling behavior is to LEAVE that person. And controlling behavior is...
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Xper 5 Age: 39 Is it a red flag if a woman says she divorced her husband because he is controlling? If so, how is this bad?
I shared with a new partner that I left my ex because he was controlling and we grew apart - he was my 1st relationship, how bad was this. I haven't heard from my new partner in 2 days after I shared that. I dont know why.
Anonymous
(25-29) I have a friend I’m 14 there 14 and I feel there blinded by love and trapped in a relation ship because he can black mail cuz of some photos she do?
She’s 14 and been in a relationship for 5 6 months and I feel she’s blinded by love he has called her a whore a bitch and many other unkind words he is also cheating on her with another girl and he is very controlling...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Poll- are you single mom or are you married/divorced or live alone and have boyfriend/girlfriend?
I live alone but have a partner. I’m divorced as well as I got married too young but he was a scammer just used me & we had no romance no relationship. He was controlling psycho & agressive & liked strippers. It was huge...
Anonymous
(25-29) Physically strong woman, body builders perhaps and their violence in relationships?
I'm curious about this. After all the portrayal's of "strong" women (physically) throughout the years, both in fiction and non-fiction. Where they reverse the roles as is par for the course in the modern world. A...
Anonymous
(36-45) I’m feeling insecure and I’m not sure how to proceed?
So to tell the story I’m 19 almost 20. From the time I was a teenager I was always “thick” I had about 30 pounds more weight than I should plus I was tall. I had a problem with depression from my home life and bullying...
Anonymous
(18-24) In a relationship, is it okay for your significant other to wear what they want?
In some relationships, partners don’t care what their partner wears. In other instances, some guys control what their girl wears and prohibiting her from wearing items like a crop top or choker necklace. Is this normal...
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Should I end my relationship due to my boyfriend's very controlling parents?
For context, I met my boyfriend on Hinge in June 2022, and we made things official in late August; we are also in an interracial relationship in which my boyfriend was adopted as a toddler from Romania, and I'm African....
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this a sign of a controlling trait and is it a red flag?
I started seeing a guy and he always dictates when we see each other. When I ask to see him he responds the next day. So now I just wait for him to reach out to make plans. it’s as though he wants to control and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Who should manage the finances in a relationship?
I think men are more competent at it. Women are more sensible. Men have the fire inside them to conquer and build success like my father you must remember that the power dynamic is based on who controls the money. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Opinions on this situation of me talking to guys while in a relationship?
I’m gonna try my best to describe this situation so both my and my boyfriend’s feelings/POV is not misunderstood. So basically before meeting me he had 2 other relationships in which he was horribly cheated on. I don’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) So... It's complicated I need to know if a girl still likes me more than a friend, should I stay or should I go?
Sooo first of all. There's a girl who we were friends for 6 years, and I had told her in the second year that I had feelings for her, right about the time she got involved with a guy who munipulated, abused her and...
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Xper 4 Age: 32 The Top 7 Traits to Look for in a Truly Good Man
We all know that finding an ideal guy can be tough. Whether you’re navigating the treacherous waters of online dating or simply trying to figure out if the guy you just met is worth your time, it can be hard to know what...
What in tarnation is going on here? ?
To be as straightforward as possible essentially my boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago after he got into a light text fight with me because he didn't understand the context of something and we had already talked...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girlfriend likes the jealous type and I'm jealous right now but still worried it might turn her off?
It's a tale as old as time, new relationship (1 month) she's got all kinds of friends but there's one guy who she hangs with 1 on 1 and I'm not happy about it. I trust her. And we have such a good thing that it would...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did I betray him?
My SO and I have been together for 7 years and we have a child together. The last year has been the worst we have ever gone through although the relationship has been extremely rocky from the start. I’m honestly starting...
Anonymous
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