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So I am in an exklusive dating with a guy who is 30 and I am 22. We ve been dating since October 2024.

I feel like there are some issues between us and also there are some problems on my part that I feel like may cause this relationship to end.

A month ago, I asked how he feels about me and if we could be girlfriend and boyfriend, but he said he is not read.

He says he likes me, and we do go on some dates every time we meet. But I feel like he is mostly interested in sex. Why do things that are done in a relationship but not want to have a relationship? Is it commitment issues or he just doesn't love me?

by the way we live in different cities so we visit each other. Like taking turns.

I want to love and to be loved deeply, but I feel like he does not love me and my feeling for him are decreasing, maybe because I am dissapointed. And for me, feelings is what makes me continue a relationship, which mean it's more important for me than sex.

I feel so insecure because of a lot of things

- that he does not show enough care. For example when he talks about his problems, I pay attention, care for him and solve them together. But when I talk about my problems, he just say it's gonna be alright and good night. No more comfort/care or whatever.

- he forgot my birthday

- I feel like he just is dating me as a second option just because other girls have not chosen him

- that my university grades are not so great right now and my family use me now and then.

- a lot of things has happened lately that makes me question myself, my relationship and my family. I see negativity more that positivity. I don't know if I am starting to become depressed.

I am a bit naive I guess.

I am thinking if I should break up with him because I don't feel loved the way I want or if I just should wait and see how it goes first and then decide.

I am also tired of dating and relationship that waste my time and feelings. I am tired of being used just for being kind. People treat me as an idiot and naive.

I know a woman and a man who both get lots of romantic attention. The woman to me is noticeably the better overall person, but the man is more physically attractive.

The woman has more options thrown at her simply because she is still a beautiful woman in a big city. Her personality also helps a lot.

To me, it was a win for good girls and good guys out there because she rejected this good looking guy because of his bad personality. I know plenty of women who would have not been able to say no because of his looks and sweet talk.

That being said, it got me thinking about this question. I'm basically wondering if you believe that it's more likely that he/she will become extra cocky or become wiser with selecting the right partner.

I believe that 10 years is relevant, but feel free to chime in with your honesty. Please try not to select the last polling option unless you really believe it is about equal.