So I was seeing this guy for 7 months. It was great, he was going through a lot including mental health and a messy break up from over a year ago, so our situation wasn't ideal. During the last couple of months, his mental health got worse but I overwhelmed him with the talks of do you want this, where are we going. He always told me yea he did but in the end grew impatient with me, never understanding the situation was difficult for me too. It all ended quickly one evening over text. Saying he wanted to sort himself out before getting into anything real. We can stay friends and see what the future holds but he needed to sort himself out for him and his kids. He said he feels numb and doesn't know what he feels about anything. I panicked and ended up spamming asking question after question for 3 days. Saying sorry, and asking can we be friends again and also getting really angry with him. He ended up saying he doesn't have any feelings left, we have no chance etc. Today I tried to talk normally but he was cold and distant, i asked if it was too soon to be friends. He said we can try but it was hard due to how I acted and I pretty much hold up a 'im needy sign' when he asked first space. I honestly thought we had a good chance. I should mention this guy is an ex of 10 years ago who did ghost me a few times. Is there a way of me fixing this to at least be friends. What is my best course of action? What are my chances of hearing from him again?
He ended things and I acted needy. Now he doesn't wanna talk to me and I dont know what to do?
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I should also add he is talking to other people as they give him peace and I have stop providing him that. He did say that he isn't interested in anyone and there isn't anyone else as he wants to be on his own for awhile
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He also still views everything i post on social media. Which is frustrating as he never did before