Search Results: younger boyfriend

So my roommate’s bf’s best friend is super attractive and checks off a lot of my boxes personality & life desires wise. I very much want to pursue something with him, but I’m super nervous since I’m in my mid/late 20s & have only ever had 1 boyfriend (who I dated off & on for a few months at a time for a few years, v toxic), he’s 1.5 years younger than me & has only ever had 1 girlfriend (only dated her for a couple months), & we’re also in a friend group together. I have more hookup experience than him, but I don’t really have a lot of dating experience, especially not healthy dating experience. The few times I have dated in the past, I’ve been told that I’m too clingy or move too fast to be serious bc I’m very touchy when I like someone. My love language is physical touch & sex is how I express a lot of affection, & sex early on doesn’t mean I’m not trying to be serious, it means I’m interested in you. If I can’t express myself in that way, then we’re not compatible.

He invited me over to his place the other night to watch some tv, & I went over & we drank some wine. I was holding his hand, put my head on his shoulder, cuddled up next to him, etc. I was expecting him to make the next move if he was interested in doing so. I’m very nervous about making all the physical moves bc I’ve been told in the past that I’m too cuddly & too physical. Well, he has even less experience than me & I don’t think he really knows how or when to move it to the next level. Long story short, I ended up leaving the other night without so much as a kiss from him, despite me being very cuddly. He seemed receptive to me touching him and when I even asked if I was doing too much he told me no, he just didn’t make a move to move things forward.

Is he uninterested & just wanting the attention? Or does it seem like he’s nervous too?

During the six month of our dating , I couldn’t send him steamy photos because I feel uncomfortable. Because I felt like it is really risky and I talked to him about it. And he said it is okay , even if I don’t send him any, he will just mind his own business ( get satisfaction by himself ) but it really make me feel guilty. I feel like I am too young for him, and I really feel bad for him, I feel like he deserves better, What should I do?

My boyfriends older brother is always meddling in his business and is always concerned with what we’re doing…

he keeps asking why I haven’t moved in with his younger brother yet, and that he hopes I’m putting my family before him and that I shouldn’t be one of his priorities…. then he proceeded to say his bro is a jerk and that he doesn’t care about family and why I live his younger bro so much…. he then proceeded to say that I should only be his priority only if I move in

was this meddling and an asshole thing to say to me knowing that me and his younger bro are in a serious relationship?
secondly I’m not yet ready to move in with my bf…. his bro has been pushing since last summer when we were only 6 months into dating