I know this sucks and you love him. What a horrible discovery. To me, he has his priorities wrong. To me, he is immature for above 25 year old. A guy, if he loves you will be patient and dote over you. And be like, “she’s my woman-get use to it or I’m out of here.”
I’m so sorry this has happened. It really breaks my heart for you, however, it is unlikely that this will improve. This means that you are likely wasting your time and prime years of your life on a Dead End relationship.
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It is not okay for your boyfriend to feel embarrassed of you in front of others. This kind of behavior is disrespectful and unacceptable in a healthy relationship. It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend about how his behavior makes you feel. Let him know that you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity, and that you will not tolerate being made to feel embarrassed or ashamed. If he is unwilling to change his behavior or continues to make you feel uncomfortable, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider moving on. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you for who you are, regardless of your age or any other factors.
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Tell him that if he is not proud of you, he needs to find a girlfriend of whom he will be proud. And you need to have a boyfriend who is proud of you.
I think you see the handwriting on the wall, don't you?He shouldn't feel that way. I'd ask him if it bothers him that you're 19.
I apologize but I say dump him. You deserve a better man than one who is embarrassed of/by you. You won't change and your sure as hell shouldn't change yourself.
Why do you think he is embarrassed to be with you? Is it because of age gap?
If he's embarrassed he should date someone he's not embarrassed to be seen with.
Stop being so embarrassing. Or date a guy your age.
We don't know based on this question whether you're causing this or whether it's just his problem.
he's dumb, Date me, I'm way older than him and unless your heavy I'll never be embarrassed of you. quite the opposite
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