Befriending a younger woman?

[Anonymous]

I started following a woman on Tiktok and we communicate on there and IG. We live in different states and I am 20 years older (she's legal).

During a live, when asked she said of all her followers she would meet me if she could. The thing is, I thought about it but didn't know if it was okay to suggest. She has a boyfriend and I'm not trying to do anything or make a move.

In this type of situation is it possible to establish a friendship?

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The thing is, I care for her in a completely platonic way, maybe like an older brother/ uncle/ father type of way. I'm not good at making friends and would obviously like to meet with the hopes of meeting someone new. Do I flat out say I hope we can be friends, ask for her number or what?

[exitseven]

Don't make a thing about this. She probably tells all the guys the same thing. Anyway, don't give out any credit card information.

[Asker]

Of course.

[Skylarlight]

A guy and a girl can be friends without it being dating and if her boyfriend has a problem with her having guy friends then he’s the problem

[Quackthulu2]

Don’t be a creep. Nobody likes that.

[Asker]

I dont intend to be. Recently she said she appreciated me not beint a creep.

[Quackthulu2]

You clearly missed the point. Leave her alone. And no, you don’t care for her in a completely platonic way. If that was the case you wouldn’t have felt the need to specify that she is of legal age and that you don’t plan on making a move. Leave her the fuck alone.

[Avicenna]

I don't think her boyfriend would be OK with that

[Iron_Man]

What’s her age?

[stratford]

Be careful.