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Hi I’m new to GAG this is my first question being posted. My girlfriend rarely wants to have sex. We have even less sex than old couples. 95% of the time she wants to cuddle without sex. I’ve tried talking to her and she always come up with excuses one after another. So in this question I’m going to share with you her excuses and why I’m frustrated.

• 1. Is that we don’t spend enough time together: I've been trying to spend all my spare time with her. Now I’m over at her house almost every day to a point where people think I live there. Nothing changed!
• 2. Is my work schedule: I used to work evenings and she’d complain that I come to her house too late and she’s tired. I switched to morning shifts 3 months ago. Nothing changed!
• 3. I don’t do enough around her house: For example, she wants me to clean her house and do repairs. I try to clean up all her messes. I’ve even learnt a few carpentry skills to repair her house. Nothing Changed!
• 4. Her work is too stressful:Now she says we can only have sex on our days off because her job is stressful and she needs to sleep after work!

Now she’s telling that sex doesn’t interest her and she can live without sex. Funny that she says that because, she one time dated 2 guys at once. This was like 8 years ago.

Her best friend told me she used to come to her crying because her exe boyfriend never wanted to have sex with her. And how she went and got relationship counselling.

I’m wondering if I should stay or if I should break up with her. I’m also wondering if she’s cheating. Can this be fixed? Let me know in the comments🙂

This girl I kinda like asked if I’d get her a salad from a pizza place and bring it to her at her work. We aren’t in a relationship but I did take her and her friend shopping the previous week and spent $1,500 on both of them thinking it would be just me and her going out on a date because she said she wanted to go to Dairy Queen and the outlet shops. Didn’t end up going to Dairy Queen though… She hasn’t done anything for me though. She claims to be broke. And she’s allergic to my cat so she can’t come over… She was kinda rude earlier too when I asked if she got her full hours at work back because they cut her hours after hiring a new girl but she said she worked a full 8 hour shift. she said…
“what day is it?”
“4/20”
“I work at a smoke shop”
I didn’t realize it was 4/20/23 until after I had already asked if she had gotten her hours back, and the new employee they hired is still in training so doesn’t know how to open or close the store and can’t use the safe at their workplace yet.

So I figured this girl didn’t deserve to have me bring her food no matter how much I like her. I still feel bad for not doing it though. I did have to get up early the next day for work and planned on going to bed early which I did.