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I matched with a guy on tinder and after texting for a few days we decided to meet up. It went so good and I feel like we both genuinely vibes and I got the sense that I could trust him (which has never happened to me before). After the date his response times increased and we were texting back and forth multiple times a day and the conversation was engaging on both parts. We made plans to meet when we both got back from our vacations but haven’t set a date yet.

Its the Christmas holidays now and he went on vacation with a friend and his response times have dropped, i expected this because obviously you’re gonna be more busy and on your phone less during the holidays and my anxious attachment is really self sabotaging me right now making me feel like he’s going to ghost me (it’s been 13 hours since my last text and no word from him). There’s only an hour time difference between us so that’s not really an issue.

please let me know if im overthinking or not thank you!

I am on another app that is similar to GAG. On the app, there is a lady with no pfp who stated that she really likes this guy on the app that she has never seen in person or met yet gave him her phone number. Now that they've been talking via text for two weeks, he is planning to make arrangements to see her in person. Now that he's said this, she is posting that he's moving too fast and it's giving red flags. I told her , "Well, aren't you the one who initiated this? Since you have no pfp, he wants to see who he has been talking to."

So what is she hiding? Is she really a "she"? Is "she" right in feeling that he wants to meet too soon? Or is he right in wanting to see who he's been talking to?