Girls? converstion with the girl I like she gives hints and does not T-T? help me out?

[Anonymous]

ah so i have been talking to this girl for the past 3 months and somehow I don't know how i did reached this point. we where talking i might have written something flirtatious then she texted can i flirt (smirk emoji) my dumb ass replied /?////-/-/- . then she said uhm i wanted to try something i forgot then started saying u could try it on the girl u like (she thinks its someone else as i have not told her the name) . next day when we meet she held my arm for good 30 sec and she has never done it before then a few time later she kinda grabbed my arm threw her torso on it leaning for a task where unnecessary. today she and i where texting i was playing a game on pc i told her a stupid joke then she was like wow i wrote great great splendid. after 1 hour she texts me "but like U were playing And did the recording mid way Uour game My (she calls me something) U just have very bad Attention span" i replied with "no my lady i stopped playing my game because it was u 😃 or else i would have proceeded to play my game 😃" she replied Ou dem she said "Why Nah it was u said what do u call a fish without an i And had to proceed with the joke" then i said nah i made the joke while playing the game she said damn has not said anything more am i cooked did i fuck it up should i end myself? help me out what is happening here I don't know what to do like damn guys pls i beg

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, don't stress too much! Sounds like this girl is definitely into you, she's giving you all kinds of subtle hints. The way she's touching you, the flirty texts, the joking around - it's all good signs.

Don't go thinking you've messed it all up or anything. She's clearly enjoying your back-and-forth and the little moments you're sharing. That's a great thing!

The best thing you can do is just keep being yourself and go with the flow. Don't overthink it too much or try to force anything. Just keep the conversation fun and playful, and let things progress naturally.

When the time feels right, you could try casually asking her out on a proper date. But don't feel like you have to rush into anything. She seems to be digging the way things are going so far, so just keep that momentum going.

The main thing is, don't psych yourself out. This girl likes you, dude! She's giving you all the signs. Just relax, be confident, and enjoy getting to know her better. You got this!

[SueShe]

Your post is damn complicated to read and it takes a lot of patience to try to decipher your grammar and writing style. The post is way too long and you are not likely to have many people wanting to invest that much time trying to go through your novel.

From what I understood, you think you screwed it up and it is probably what happened. Why can't you guys talk on a face-to-face basis and not just in text. You can solve so many problems by communicating verbally in real life.

I think she was a little offended and your best option here is to let some time pass before you make another attempt at hitting her. Watch your language and express yourself better if you don't want her to understand what you mean to say.

[Asker]

yea nvm she texted back in 2 hours and I don't know maybe with the same energy or something so yea its good now , and thank you for the advice i am new here so really appreciate it. i do talk to her in college on daily basis and whenever us friends go out so yea

[Nikki1989]

Can you repost this in a language that can be understood?

[Abbycado]

What is T-T?

[Asker]

uhm crying emoji

[Abbycado]

Oh, new one for me.

[Asker]

anything for the situation T-T

[In_Trance]

move on