I need girl advice about a girl?

[Jenom]

Hi ladies,

I've been chatting online to a girl since Feb. We matched on Tinder, moved onto FB and havve met up once a few months ago. I've confessed I like her a few times and dropped not so subtle hints I find her attractive and that I'd like to date her. She informed early on that she's going through a lot of shit and doesn't want to date anyone until she sorts herself and her problems out. One time I asked her if she had anyone else she is talking to besides me and she said no and said when she decides to start dating I have no competition.. The thing is, she said she doesn't know how long it could be and said I could be waiting a long time. There's two other girls that are highly interested in dating me and I don't want to pass up any opportunities while holding out on this particular one. We have great banter between each other and she knows I'm attracted to her though I don't bring it up often. Am I being played in some sort of way? If I don't message her for 2-4 days she will message me asking if I'm going well etc...

[easyBree-zy]

while I dont think you're being played, you shouldn't wait indefinitely for the first girl. your feelings may even fade by the time she's emotionally ready to date.
do try and continue to support og girl, it could mean the world if she's going through a really rough time

[Jenom]

I support and encourage her with a lot things she deals with and opens up to me about. She expresses appreciation for it too. I just don't want to start dating someone then she comes running, like me dating someone else might trigger something in her wanting to start dating me or something.

[beachloverr]

I think you should date one of the other two girls.. only if you’re interested in them. I don’t feel like you should put your dating life on hold for another person ever. If it’s meant to work out between you in this girl it will eventually.