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Search Results: red flags
Women, here are red flags in a man from a mans point of view
Trigger Warning: If you've had a bad relationship before that was so bad it caused PTSD than perhaps you shouldn't read this and should just turn around now. I give you permission to pretend you read it and leave a...
NathanOlipop
Xper 2 Age: 36 While dating, is it a red flag to go for couples therapy?
My ex and I are trying to work things out and so we decided to go for couples therapy to try and understand each other better. I thought it was a healthy way of trying to understand each other better but I am being told...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can a person change?
My guy is a charmer and always has been especially with the ladies. We have been friends for years but i never wanted to be involved with him cause i felt he had too many female "friends". Well now he is 53 and way more...
DollAlone
Xper 5 Age: 50 Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, why do you hate construction workers?
The reason my girlfriend (now ex) cheated on me was because of my job. She hated the fact that I'm just a blue collared man so she sought a businessman to sleep with which eventually knocked her up. Despite being busy...
nonchalantindividual
Xper 1 Age: 27 Isn't it a bit weird?
So there is a guy I've been dating for a week, but he seems to be love bombing me cuase he'stoo sweet and talkes about future and taking me out for dinners and so on, and I'm scared for my feelings. Last night, he posted...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it a red flag to you if a guy has a lot of female friends?
Despite what I say on here, I have more female friends than male friends, and NO I don't try to fuck them. But I can say that all day long and y'all won't believe me. So, to the ladies, is it off putting if let's say 6...
ClassicDropout
Xper 6 Age: 29 Is it weird that the guy who recruited me for my new job is messaging me on WhatsApp with kisses at the end?
I went to a job interview the other week and the guy who interviewed me was very chill and the interview process felt very laid back and casual. I got offered the job but since I’ve been offered the job, I’ve received no...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would a relationship work if my partner is more in love with me than I am?
We're both in our 30s, with me a bit older. I'm in an LDR. We met for the first time a few weeks ago, 3 months into the relationship. We had so much fun. We got along well and everytime one of us felt anything negative,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Ladies if a man hadn't had sex in a long time and didn't have a high body count could you still be with him and/or marry him?
Right now it is 8 years going on 9 in several months. I ask not so much that I am concerned about purely sex. It is more so my concerns about how a woman will view me when I have to tell her the truth. Because I have been...
Anonymous
(30-35) 
Have you ever dated a hobosexual and didn’t realize until later?
So I was in relationship with this guy that appeared stable when we first started dating. Had his own place, car, and job. A series of events happened when I started finding things out about him once I was invested one by...
Anonymous
(25-29) IIs a little bit of jealousy ok?
This guy I've been with for a couple months let me go because I was "too jealous". Last night, he was telling me randomly "Girls have been hitting me up! This girl I went to school with is married but she wants to talk to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Anonymous
(25-29) 
What does it mean if a guy says that he’s down with whatever?
So my best friend it’s trying to set me up with one of his friends. I haven’t met the guy yet but according to him, he’s an older guy (I’m in my mid twenties, he’s in his early thirties) who is pretty level headed and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are these early signs this man is lovebombing me?
I matched with w guy on an online dating app he found me on Instagram (I don’t link my dating profile to my social media profile for safety reasons). He sent me a voice message saying how his career was similar to mine,...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you find a girlfriend when you simply don’t know what to look for?
I’m on the autism spectrum and more often then not when I get interested in a women it turns into a bad situation because I’m not aware of most red flags others would see right away
Anonymous
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Bkay123
Xper 5 Age: 35 