Dating

Have you ever dated a hobosexual and didn’t realize until later?

So I was in relationship with this guy that appeared stable when we first started dating. Had his own place, car, and job. A series of events happened when I started finding things out about him once I was invested one by one over the months. The more information I found out the worst it got. From couch surfing, jumping from job to job, having a terrible relationship with his mom while having to rely on her help for shelter, and legal issues. I was too invested and wasted my 25th year on him. I wanted to be the woman he felt held him down while he was coming up and I genuinely cared for him. I only helped him financially twice though because I didn’t want to be used. However he got sex out of me and our last date was a little expensive that I offered to pay for. He oddly joked about getting me pregnant in one of our last conversations then ghosted me, came back and said he was moving away and ghosted me for good.

It was very naive of me. It was a learning experience for sure. I was just scrolling on TikTok and saw a video talking about red flags and it really occurred to me that the word for him was hobosexual :/ and I felt a since of shame

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Hobosexual — to be attracted to someone who can provide you with housing or other benefits. Someone who chooses to live a parasitic lifestyle. Often associated with a narcissistic personality style.
Have you ever dated a hobosexual and didn’t realize until later?
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