Search Results: when men are hurt

Why would a man want to intentionally hurt you after telling him that you are protecting your emotional and mental wellbeing?

I tell him that and he asks if I’m sensitive and he goes on and attempts to make me feel safe just for him to hurt me in the end…. And I also suspect that he may have a gf…. But why hurt someone who is telling you and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I hit my boyfriend and he spit in my face and his mom is promiscuos & she wants us to break up.. and I still love him? Advice?

We were in the car talking and we passed a certain house and he said have you been here and I said that years ago I hooked up there with a friend from school. And he said Is there anyone in this city you didn't sleep...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get a socially awkward friend to get out of her shell and start dating again?

My friend has a lot of good qualities about her. She’s kind hearted, she’s a good christian (as in she accepts everyone for who they are but at the same time isn’t judgy or strict), she’s smart and very pretty (she turns...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to make a man regret how he did me…? it still hurts?

It hurts so bad to know that I’m not the girl he wants… and that there’s some other woman he would rather be with, respect and not hurt.. why can’t I be her.. why can’t I be the one for him… It’s almost like I hate...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you agree my mum was being really cruel after my break up recently?

It's been less than a week since my boyfriend and zi broke up. A couple of weeks ago my mum was saying all positive things about him to my sister. Now, after breaking up, she is saying how I need to find a man with this...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

In a relationship or marriage, who would get hurt the most if they discover they will never have kids of their own?

Assuming both parties are in a serious relationship or marriage and want to form a family, who would get hurt the most if they're infertile? - A woman that's still within her good fertile years or even young, finding out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Assuming both parties are in a serious relationship or marriage and want to form a family, who would get hurt the most if they're infertile? - A woman that's still within her good

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Family & Friends

Who’s the saddest person you’ve ever seen?

I was 10 years old. My cousin’s great grandma passed away and her little brother came for a funeral. He had red adorable cheek and blue teary eyes and nobody in the whole house, nobody was sadder than he was. My little...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

It sounds stupid but it hurts me?

I have a VR headset, I don’t know if you know what meta horizon worlds is but it’s like a social app where you can meet people. Anyways, people have “meta boos” and it’s so cute. Some even met offline cause they got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How much does it hurt for a woman to get in the crotch?

I know it hurts less than a guy. For example, a flick or slap would hurt a guy but could even have "other" effects on women. Light hits hurt guys but wouldn't hurt women. Lots of girls say getting hit there hurts same as...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I know it hurts less than a guy. For example, a flick or slap would hurt a guy but could even have "other" effects on women. Light hits hurt guys but wouldn't hurt women. Lots of girls

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I am depressed. And I cannot feel for my relationship. What do I do?

Depression has always followed. It was going to happen. I come from a fucked up family where love and affection is inconsistent and confusing. I've always struggled emotionally but managed to keep going. im at a point...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Which gender gets hurt by female hypergamy?

I think women. Imagine how painful it is to never meet the man you desire or not being able to make him commit.

marish01

Yoda Age: 36

I think women. Imagine how painful it is to never meet the man you desire or not being able to make him commit.

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Family & Friends

Is calling CAS on someone beneficial?

I'm concerned for this man's children by several things he's said. However, I don't know if he's actually done anything. I'd like someone to check on them but don't want th family to be traumatized if they've done nothing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would my boyfriend tell me my butt looks bigger in leggings?

My boyfriend usually taps on my butt in a playful way and says big booty which makes me feel a little self conscious but good at the same time. I like it more when he says I have a bubble butt without referencing my butt...

Latayshia122

Xper 1 Age: 31

Why would a man say something he knows he can’t come back from?

Like why would a man try to say something he knows he can’t come back from or that he knows would hurt your feelings….

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I feel hurt and offended by a comment my boyfriend made about my body?

My boyfriend likes to be playful and affectionate at times when it comes to my butt in particular. Some comments he makes regarding my butt don’t feel genuine sometimes. When he jokes and says “bubble butt” while tapping...

Latayshia122

Xper 1 Age: 31

Do men jokingly say "Love ya"?

This man who I am friends with for years and jokingly proposed me and then turned out, he truly proposed me. Has also often told me "Love ya". And he told me he is upset by how careless I am and not realizing how I am...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Would it be less hurtful if they cheat with the same gender?

Infidelity hurts badly but would it feel less of a betrayal, less hurtful if they cheat with the same gender. This means they were always bisexual. For some reason lesbian action isn't treated harshly as when it's between...

Anonymous

(25-29)