In a relationship or marriage, who would get hurt the most if they discover they will never have kids of their own?

Assuming both parties are in a serious relationship or marriage and want to form a family, who would get hurt the most if they're infertile?

- A woman that's still within her good fertile years or even young, finding out she'll never get pregnant, will never give birth to her own child.

- A man finding out he'll never be able to father his own children, will never be able to get his girlfriend/wife nor any woman pregnant ever.

Which would get hurt and/or affected the most?

The young, infertile woman
A permanently infertile man
Both equally devastated
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
In a relationship or marriage, who would get hurt the most if they discover they will never have kids of their own?
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