How to make a man regret how he did me…? it still hurts?

[Anonymous]

It hurts so bad to know that I’m not the girl he wants… and that there’s some other woman he would rather be with, respect and not hurt.. why can’t I be her.. why can’t I be the one for him…

It’s almost like I hate myself…

How can I make him regret losing me, rejecting me/ getting rid of me…

I’m trying my best to be strong but I’m sad and I’m always trying to figure out who he wants

[rosemilk]

never let a guy make you feel this way... it does nothing productive. the reality is is that you won't get him back. and why would you want him back after he chose someone else over you? you can't change him. you just have accept the situation. eventually you'll move on

[exitseven]

This way of thinking will only end in disappointment. Know that this happens a lot and most people think the way you are thinking. I have done this myself.
The way to go is to leave it in the past and try and make your life the best that you can.
My uncle who was a cop used to say that living well is always the best revenge

[Asker]

What if you just still have interest and feelings that won’t go away after some months. It pains me to know that I’m not in his mind at all

[exitseven]

You have to accept it. Capt. Kirk said that there are a million things in the universe that we can have and a million things we can't

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[AviatorTom]

Stop trying to get even. Think about your happiness. Go find a guy to care for you.

[Razp_Sorbet]

The best revenge is moving on and forgetting about them. You don't want hatred to be your personality

[Asker]

It’s not I just still have feelings

[Razp_Sorbet]

They will go away with time

[Asker]

It’s been 6 months…. I’m just more hurt with how he did me in the end

[spartan55]

How he 'did you'...🙄

[Asker]

Yes, treated me like crap

[spartan55]

No he didn't

[Asker]

Yes he did. He’s a liar

[Anonymous]

You knew him for 2 weeks. Goodness gracious get a grip

[Asker]

I think it’s hard to explain. It’s a complicated story and how I feel is how I feel regardless of how you feel about it

[Opinion Owner]

Get a grip. It was only for 2 weeks tho you're not in love. You just have very low self esteem

[Asker]

Again, I’m entitled to feel how I feel. You weren’t in my shoes.

[Anonymous]

Who’s this guy exactly to u

[Asker]

Not a boyfriend but I guy I talked to for a minute and went out with…

[Opinion Owner]

For a minute? Lol. What’s your problem. He clearly saw u as friend

[Asker]

Well for 2 weeks we talked and then went out

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. That’s it. What did u expect

[Opinion Owner]

It’s obsession. Not genuine care or feeling towards him

[Asker]

I mean yes but I did want to be with him. I don’t feel lust. It was genuine

[Opinion Owner]

Why u like him so much. What’s so great? Within 2 weeks one can’t even understand a person completely

[Asker]

It’s a complicated story and the reasons I feel the way I feel it’s hard to explain…

[Opinion Owner]

It’s hard to explain because there’s no reason. How do u both look

[Asker]

Not true at all

I think he’s a nice looking guy.. he’s 37 and I’m 26.

[Opinion Owner]

Well why do u like him so much?

[Opinion Owner]

Is he with someone else

[Asker]

It’s hard to explain but I think what attracted me to him is he was different from most guys I talked to

He possibly is… or he was sleeping with someone else idk… ik on the date he said he was scared to sleep with me bc I’d be crazier.

When he asked when I was last intimate with someone I told him but when I asked him he smirked and looked away

[Opinion Owner]

That’s weird. What’s special about this person

[Asker]

I felt like he was someone I needed.. a good “masculine “ companion. I felt like he took the time and put in the effort to figure me out even when I had my guard up in the beginning

[Opinion Owner]

Ughhhh ok. Is there another girl he’s with now

[Asker]

I’m not sure… possibly. If not a girlfriend maybe someone he’s being intimate with.

[Asker]

Or maybe there was a girl all along