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Is this wrong or am I over reacting?

Hi, I'm 28, I've been dating this guy (27) for about 7 months now. Its recently long distance while he finishes his PhD. So, it's been a pretty solid relationship. I trust him. He's a good guy. My current issue though is,...
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What should I (19M) do moving forward with her (18F)?

I (19M) am dating this girl (18F) officially for a month. I know her schedule pretty well and she is truly one of the busiest person I know, and has lots of things going on in her life that is prioritized over dating. I...
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Should I change who I am for my partner and mine benefit?

Basically a couple months back my partner started working for a extremely wealthy family in the UK, I can't say much because we've had to sign NDAs and if I give to much away and someone with abit of knowledge also from...
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Why is she petty to me, despite respecting her current relationship?

Colleague that I have been dealing with for a while, has been absolutely passive aggressive and petty on purpose to make my job harder. We were cool with each other and at the time we're really good friends, we never...
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Limerance for past hookup?

So long story short, i had a drug induced psychotic episode three years ago from 🍄and there was this guy that I was in love with during this time. Prior to that we had talked for nearly four years and we never saw...
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What is going on with him? I need guys opinion on this please?

Guys I need your input on the matter! I met a guy at work three months ago! I'm an introvert so it's not easy for me to make new friends etc, so he did put a lot of effort while at work to get to know me a little better!...
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What's the lesson I am supposed to learn in life if events keep repeating themselves? Does that mean I need to change my reaction to it?

I find myself at the center of gossip from other women (who over interpret every little thing I do and twist it to suit their narrative, try to find me flaws, spread rumours to isolate me at work, try to isolate me, smear...
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I find myself at the center of gossip from other women (who over interpret every little thing I do and twist it to suit their narrative, try to find me flaws, spread rumours to isolate Show More
This is not in your control. This is what life has in stock for you
You need to change your reaction to these events
You need to change your behaviour from the start and act like a bitch so people leave you the fuck alone
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Does it make any sense to get into a relationship with this person?

Me and my former coworker are the same age and we have been friends for 2 months. Not exactly friends as we’ve hardly ever hung out outside of work. Just 3 short times since he’s quit. But we’ve talked just about...
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Should I give this relationship a chance?

Me and my former coworker are the same age and we have been friends for 2 months. Not exactly friends as we’ve hardly ever hung out outside of work. Just 3 short times since he’s quit. But we’ve talked just about...
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Need Advice: A co-worker drunkenly held my hand on the bus - What should I make of this?

Hey everyone, I could use some advice on a situation that happened recently. I have a co-worker that I’m friendly with, but we’re not super close. During a bus trip home after a work event, she drunkenly held my hand for...
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Am I right to be afraid of the bond we have?

I have a close friend who is bisexual and a certified commitment phobe. I'm also a commitment phobe. He treats me like his little sister and acts very protective, always teases me and buys me food most of the time. You'd...
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Am I a bitch for feeling like this? Should I say something to the girl?

Quick background story, I’ve been on and off messing with this guy for 7/8 months. We lose contact whenever he gets into a relationship and we make up after he’s single. He recently told me about this girl that he’s...
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Guys, What am I supposed to do?

So, many of you probably know about my online friend. I am very VERY certain that he has feelings for me. Here is why: - When I was in a relationship with my ex, my online friend got very defensive about my ex lying to me...
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Why can't we remain friends now that she knows how I feel about her?

Two years ago I experienced love-at-first-sight for a woman at work, she made me behave completely out of character; where I'm normally extremely shy regarding women/dating/relationships she would somehow break down my...
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What’s going on…?

So, my partner of 17 years has to relocate to another state. The plan has been for him to go, and I follow after 6 months. He’s been living with me at my place the past 10+ years. In our relationship I think I may be the...
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Broke up with boyfriend via text. Was I wrong?

We had been dating for almost 8 months, and I had previously discussed things that I thought were lacking in the relationship more than twice and nothing had changed. My boyfriend did the bare minimum. He hardly put in...
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Does anyone else have this dating problem?

I'm a very good flirt (not in the sense of flirting with anyone for the sake of flirting, but flirting with somebody I'm interested in). I would say I know how to be in a healthy relationship. But it's like I don't know...
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Boyfriend starts pulling away after a break?

As a context we’re in our early 20s and have only been seeing each other for two months. One month ago, i tried communicating with him on how we need more time together as we’re only meeting up once a week for a few hours...
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Is it OK to spend an hour a week with an exclusive date?

I am in a long distance relationship and can see him every few months. rather than talking everyday, I’ve said we can talk and have quality time once a week at the same day and time for an hour. I made sure the day and...
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Why would a guy say he could see us being together and I'm worth everything but then end dating me all in the same conversation?

I was dating this guy, we talked about we talked about evaluating each other for a relationship, what we value for marriage etc and how it could be with each other. He said that he could see us being together, but I...
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