Quick background story, I’ve been on and off messing with this guy for 7/8 months. We lose contact whenever he gets into a relationship and we make up after he’s single.
He recently told me about this girl that he’s been “seeing” I’m not too sure what the extent of their relationship is, but I know it’s more than friendly because I see them liking/hearting each others posts A LOT on social media. Well anyways, tonight he texted me wanting to fuck and I was questioning him about her and him and he told me “Jesus you people can’t let me do what I please without questions.” and then I go, “well if you have her, why do you need me?” and he goes “do I need to say it again?” and then when I said “Obviously you have something with her and (I know it isn’t my business) but is she better than me?” and he goes “slow fucking slow I’m just gonna go to bed” and basically let it at that.
I do know OF her and her name, (not personally), or anything, I’ve never actually spoken to her, but do you guys think I should say something to her? I’m not really sure if they’re together together or just messing around but he told me a few weeks ago, how “she (insert her name here) wouldn’t like that” when I told him if he needed someone to talk to, I was there for him.
The only thing that’s really keeping me from saying anything is the fact that I can almost guarantee she’s gonna tell him I said some thing and he’s going to flip out on me and I really don’t want that drama. Also it’s none of my business.
I feel like if I say something, I’m going to wanna rub it in her face that he still contacts me despite the situation between them because deep down I love him but it’d never work between us.
I’m not sure what to do?
He recently told me about this girl that he’s been “seeing” I’m not too sure what the extent of their relationship is, but I know it’s more than friendly because I see them liking/hearting each others posts A LOT on social media. Well anyways, tonight he texted me wanting to fuck and I was questioning him about her and him and he told me “Jesus you people can’t let me do what I please without questions.” and then I go, “well if you have her, why do you need me?” and he goes “do I need to say it again?” and then when I said “Obviously you have something with her and (I know it isn’t my business) but is she better than me?” and he goes “slow fucking slow I’m just gonna go to bed” and basically let it at that.
I do know OF her and her name, (not personally), or anything, I’ve never actually spoken to her, but do you guys think I should say something to her? I’m not really sure if they’re together together or just messing around but he told me a few weeks ago, how “she (insert her name here) wouldn’t like that” when I told him if he needed someone to talk to, I was there for him.
The only thing that’s really keeping me from saying anything is the fact that I can almost guarantee she’s gonna tell him I said some thing and he’s going to flip out on me and I really don’t want that drama. Also it’s none of my business.
I feel like if I say something, I’m going to wanna rub it in her face that he still contacts me despite the situation between them because deep down I love him but it’d never work between us.
I’m not sure what to do?
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Not your not awful for this your a normal woman who is being cheated on!
Like it or not you have some relationship with this loser horny dog!
He is also flat out cheating on his new girlfriend! And some how is dumb enough to think you won't care or have feelings he is with someone else!
Please mention it cause this girl will have no idea he has a friends with benefits on the side! She will think that she is the only one!
He probably told her they are exclusive too! So let her know what she is getting into with this guy!
Also the drama of a man ever makes you feel that way it's time to cut him lose!
Means he is being emotionally abusive and has a big negative affect on you and your other guy interactions or friends
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