Search Results: how do i get my family back

So there’s two girls.. let’s call one of them April. She been with her babydaddy over 12 years now. Well she has a history dating multiple men. nevertheless, she kicks them out and run back to her babydaddy. This girl we can call April got involved with a married man. She knew about the woman but didn’t know the man was married. However, her sister knew the entire time but didn’t tell her. Multiple family members knew but didn’t tell her.
she was giving this man money and couldn’t even get the man to even pay a bill for her. She was taking care of a man with two jobs, who still is married to his wife.

another woman we can call “Daph” was another woman involved with this married man. Spent more than 10k on him and was giving him advice about the other woman April. The married man was calling both women to get advice and to vent about one another. The married man always referred to them as “friend”. Daph found out he was married by Facebook.

the married man wouldn’t let either one or their relatives tag him in anything on Facebook. he didn’t add either woman on his social medias. You weren’t allowed to post anything romantic on his page. He had post approval on.

well the girl April found out about the married man but couldn’t get information on her, so she started digging.

The married man has his wife living like a queen. Both women are currently trying to fight the wife. The wife is a stay at home wife and has a private chef. She gets her own money. they just bought a home together. his wife don’t have to worry about anything.

all this went down on Facebook.

We’ve been dating for 3.5 years. He moved out of town about 6 months ago. The last time he came to visit him and his kids stayed at my house the whole two weeks. We were planning for me to visit him soon & I told him I’d have to bring my son this time. He said ok no problem. Then the following day he said sister asked if his nephew can fly down with me. So I said um okay two kids shouldn’t be too hard. He was like well I want my kids to come they haven’t been here yet. I said understandable but it’s only one of me, that’ll be 4 kids 5-9 years old plus luggage, I’d love to bring them but that’s going to be too difficult. I’m bringing my son this time because I have to. So he said if I don’t bring them my son can’t come.

Little back story! He was a single father when we met & I took care of his kids up until about 3 months before he moved. They’ve stayed with me while he was working even times when my son was with his dad or spending the night with family members. I took them to school when he needed me to, treated them as my own. Their mom came back in the picture after years of refusing to take them while living in the same city. She would take them a few times a month then when I came in the picture she got even more distant. She would always take their daughter but NEVER the boys. So I stepped up.

If I could’ve driven just so everyone could go I would have but I can’t drive my car that far & he knows that. None of the kids have flown before. 2 are afraid of heights. Not only would I have to fly I’ll have to get an Uber, train & another Uber because he’ll be at work. I can count on one hand the amount of times I needed him to keep my son or do anything for him. So for him to basically say my son is not welcome to his house without his kids being there, after EVERYTHING I’ve done for his children with or without my son being there is soo unbelievable. I broke up with him. Was this situation worth it?