Search Results: using a girl to get her friend

Do guys intentionally ‘play games’ too?

So I always hear about girls playing games, as a girl i have never intentionally done this (maybe it’s why im incredibly single and end up coming off too strong🤣) but I do two girls that have used certain ‘tactics’ to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl I dated briefly said she wanted to take it slow but I felt that she lied me. What do you think?

I dated a co worker for about a month and a half and from the get go she said that she likes to take things slow which can be a red flag for some but i wanted to be mature about it and i accepted that considering they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Would a guy who loves his new girlfriend keep tabs on another girl (secretly watching her, asking people about her etc.)?

There is a guy who used to have a crush on me and keeps staring at me. He knows I’m attracted to him too but apparently he recently got into a relationship with a girl he posts on insta. He keeps staring at me when he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

There is a guy who used to have a crush on me and keeps staring at me. He knows I’m attracted to him too but apparently he recently got into a relationship with a girl he posts on

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Why would a guy who close friends with a girl act surprised when she wasn’t interested in speaking to him?

He cut all of contact with her and they haven’t each other in two years. When she used to try to call him he would quickly get off the phone and said I’ll call you back, but he never does. Or he’ll never answer her calls....

Anonymous

(25-29)

I went behind my girlfriends back and asked her family for help, it blew up and she's upset at me, when should I contact her or is it over?

So, I finally met the girl of my dreams, we became great friends and decided to date. She has three kids with two ex's and is going through custody with one. She got some bad news that she would lose custody for several...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, A girl friend likes having me talk her to sleep each night lately, I don't know what to make of it, what's up?

I've asked directly why she likes it and she says she just likes that I can keep talking when she has nothing to say and it helps her sleep. Occasionally she will vent to me but then tells me to talk like normal. A few...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What sort of impression does this give if I am silent after I get turned away because someone is now dating someone?

Maybe I should've asked her months ago. This girl I work with, but rarely see since I am remote.. I saw her join a group I created on a dating app 2 1/2 months ago. Maybe I should've asked her then, but I didn't....

Anonymous

(36-45)

I confessed my feelings to a shy guy and he hasn’t replied yet. please help. could especially use a guys perspective?

I confessed my feelings to this shy guy I’ve been liking for almost a year. We go to university together and take the same classes. So we talk sometimes and have mutual friends. I’m close with his guy best friend from...

Anonymous

(18-24)

[PART 1] We haven't talked in 1 1/2 and I want to talk to him but everytime we stopped talking it was me the one to initiate the conversations?

So I have a friend who I met on a Facebook group in 2016 (I was 19, he was 18). We talked a lot and I felt like we were really good friends. We're both from Córdoba, Argentina but he lives in a town that's 3 hours away on...

cindyortega416

Xper 2 Age: 29

Fashion & Beauty

My mom won't let me wear make up. Im 17 and applying for colleges. Im smart, have good grades, but she says its "unlady like". What's up?

I'm 17, I have a 4.2 GPA, I'm applying for college, I'm not leaving for collage (my mom forbade me going away for college), my only friend is a girl in Finland, I have no boyfriend and my mom forbade me from dating until...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why Does He Like Other Girls Posts and Not Mine?

Backstory: There's this guy I had relations with and we used to message each other all the time, a few times til the early morning. He had never wanted a relationship, though he says he likes me as a person and had some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do u call these kinds of relationships?

I used to talk to a guy for 6 months before we meet, he can barely speak English but he was trying to talk and I helped him to. He said he likes me and I told him I did to we flirted and tried to get to know eachother...

losthopelessgirl

Xper 1 Age: 22

Family & Friends

How do you maintain respect for someone who shows little self-respect?

I’m asking this in general but also here’s the situation. Like he’s so assertive and dominant with me (which somewhat bothers me because I normally go for submissive men). I’m used to men who are masculine/dominant around...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Girl's Behavior

Question for girls, but guys can answer also. A girl always uses my name instead of nickname, why?

There is this girl I like and she always calls me by my name and never uses my nickname. We have a friend that's named same as me, but she calls him by a nickname always and I'm much more closer with her than he is. She...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Should an attractive man worry about this stuff?

I get hit on a lot, and I love to have fun with my friends while drinking, so I drink a lot. Anyways, I’m worried about being raped, or a girl desperate enough to be using me without my consent. I blackout sometimes when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is it some guys will use a girl in any way possible?

I have a “friend” and he’s currently not with his ex girlfriend but is talking to her. I have no romantic feelings for this dude but I wouldn’t mind him nailing me. He invited me over with the lure of him banging me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My guy friend's new girlfriend hates me?

My guy friends new girlfriend hates me. My friend group is me, another girl, and three guys. One of them, I'll name him Josh, has a new girlfriend and for his birthday he had a pool party. I wanted to meet his girlfriend...

Kimchi_doll

Xper 4 Age: 21

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, fair to ask her why she's so upset with the situation, I dont get it and no one else seems to either?

so i was dating on old friend of mine. we broke up do to me being a virgin and she couldnt get past it but at the same time she refused to take it. for the last two months things have been really off and on between us...

Anonymous

(36-45)