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I am crazy about this girl. We had a short but full on relationship. The last two weeks there was arguing then we broke it off and it was mainly her not wanting it. She did consider getting back, but felt a weight off her shoulders when we broke it off as she thought it could get messy, thinks we could clash. Rang her the next day and she agreed to take a break. Then she rang me back a few days later and rinsed me.

Saying I didn’t make her feel special, didn’t provide for her and loads of reasons, and I agreed to make the necessary changes, apologised said I really like her. She was like ‘not sure not sure, you’re a nice guy.’ Said she just wants to be single for a couple months then get back to dating a new guy, and to delete the account we set up together.

It has been 1.5 months with no contact. I removed her off of instagram as soon as we broke up. Told her to never contact me again - as I thought that was it and was hurt, bit impulsive. She hasn’t blocked me off WhatsApp.

I was a good boyfriend to her. I didn’t do anything wrong, we all make small mistakes but nothing bad. We have met each others parents, a lot of marriage discussion. I thought we got on soo well. I am messed up. She was insanely beautiful as well. Once in a lifetime girl.

Once a girl has decided to end a relationship let’s say a 4 month intense one. She has made up her mind for good. Even after a couple months of no contact. That is it, they don’t come back.

I think those types are definitely crazy

Imagine a short relationship of a few months. A couple have sex and it’s a disaster, the guy fumbled it and like stopped randomly, so awkward and the girl is confused. Zero connection and zero pleasure.

Does that really destroy the attraction to him

Especially like a really pretty girl.
Let’s say after a short but intense relationship.

Guy 1: Got engaged to a girl then she got cold feet and left him. Wedding was booked. She then got married like a year later to a new guy.

Guy 2: 4 month relationship to a 10/10 girl as so beautiful and from same culture. Girl left him, before they broke up they made love and it was so bad. Didn’t even get to do it properly.

Guy 3: Never had a girlfriend and 27.

Apparently, I'm talking to this girl who recently gotten out of a courtship that went wrong. It appears she's healing from it and needs some time to get her emotions together.

I was just curious. I was thinking of talking to her once a week for a month to see if I could conjour anything and give her some time to heal, but also not stay in it if she's on some forever friend ish.

Was just curious on this perspective. Should I move on, continue pursuing, or a little bit in between. Thank you.

I wanted to call her but she said she wanted to get to know me first. Eventually she opened up a bit as we got to know each other and managed a call. It went pretty well. Maybe she's a bit hesitant cause she doesn't want to get hurt again. It's a bit of a confusing situation but just let me know.