Is my relationship completely done?

Question

I am crazy about this girl. We had a short but full on relationship. The last two weeks there was arguing then we broke it off and it was mainly her not wanting it. She did consider getting back, but felt a weight off her shoulders when we broke it off as she thought it could get messy, thinks we could clash. Rang her the next day and she agreed to take a break. Then she rang me back a few days later and rinsed me.

Saying I didn’t make her feel special, didn’t provide for her and loads of reasons, and I agreed to make the necessary changes, apologised said I really like her. She was like ‘not sure not sure, you’re a nice guy.’ Said she just wants to be single for a couple months then get back to dating a new guy, and to delete the account we set up together.

It has been 1.5 months with no contact. I removed her off of instagram as soon as we broke up. Told her to never contact me again - as I thought that was it and was hurt, bit impulsive. She hasn’t blocked me off WhatsApp.

I was a good boyfriend to her. I didn’t do anything wrong, we all make small mistakes but nothing bad. We have met each others parents, a lot of marriage discussion. I thought we got on soo well. I am messed up. She was insanely beautiful as well. Once in a lifetime girl.

AviatorTom · Answer

As much as you'd like to get back together, I'm afraid that time has passed. Time to treat this as a learning experience and move on to find another relationship. Maybe that one will last.

Wholesome_Glory · Answer

A relationship is merely a vessel for the life you are building. If it no longer serves the expansion of your spirit or the weight of your calling, you are anchoring yourself to a ghost. Do not fear the silence of moving on, for true purpose requires a clarity that common comforts often obscure. You were not made to settle for the stagnant or the small. Walk toward that greater horizon where your actions finally reflect the absolute integrity of your soul. Your destiny is not found in the shadows of someone else's expectations, but in the relentless pursuit of an excellence that transcends all ordinary ties. Rise and claim the life that commands respect from your own conscience.

objective_calendar · Answer

She's done with you (regardless of how you feel about that). Even though there were talks about marriage (serious stuff) in the relationship she still went ahead and decided she was "done", meaning she just doesn't see a future with you. So there's really nothing you can do except moving on.

You could try and obsess over it to find the exact reason for her leaving you but "not sure, not sure, you're a nice guy" and "you don't make me feel special" (you aren't nice enough)- these reasons that she gave don't exactly help narrow it down. It could be entirely possible that these negative feelings could have building up inside of her for some time and the argument was what tipped it off. Or it could be something else.

But instead of worrying about.. all that just know one thing's for sure; she wasn't gonna commit to you.

Kvass · Answer

While you're here crying nonstop, she's probably out partying with other dudes lol. Stop asking.

MissSunshine2 · Answer

I'd reach out to her and ask her how she feels about you. Lay all your cards on the table.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Get over her. At this point, she ain’t worth shit

Abbycado · Answer

We’ve told you on the last post.

Anonymous · Answer

How do u both look

_Jenny_ · Answer

Move on

Is my relationship completely done?

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