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So I’ve known my friend for a year through college classes, but we’ve only been friends since December, along with 2 other people. The first semester we met she had a boyfriend and I was getting over a serious 2-year crush so wasn’t interested in a relationship, but I knew I wanted to be her friend. I asked her, but she said no to being friends cause of her boyfriend. I was a little disappointed, but accepted it. The next semester we met again and started talking and hanging out more before our classes. I wasn’t going to be friends with her since I remembered she had a boyfriend and said no, but then I found out she had broken up with him and decided there wouldn’t be any harm in asking again if she wanted to be friends. Around this time I also noticed I was developing feelings for her. I emailed her saying I enjoyed spending the two semesters with her and asked her if she wanted to be friends and gave her my number in case she did. Few minutes later I got a text from her that said and I quote “I really enjoyed spending the semesters with you too and I’d love to be friends with you!” Since then we’ve been texting all the time, but haven’t been able to hang out since becoming friends cause we’ve both been busy. I want to tell her I like her and got her a Valentine’s present (a mug that says “you’re the best” and a small box of chocolates). I’ve read/heard that it’s better to get your feelings out in the open asap, but we’re also still getting to know each other, so should I go ahead with telling her I like her or wait a bit and do I still give her the Valentine’s gift?

I met her at a party and I got her Snapchat. She lives far away from me so our communication has been mainly over Snapchat and messaging apps like zoom. We talk a lot and I share things with her.

Because I am older than her she jokes about me being her sugar daddy. Sometimes she opens my messages instantly. I did a video call with her and she said that she was glad that we are alone because she could cook me dinner and she said there was wine available and that were gonna be dating. When she went to bed she was saying I was in there with her and I had to say goodnight to her. She has also dedicated a song to me and she doesn’t do that to her other guy friends

She has said she wants to come and see me when she can. This other guy says she’s a Queen and that and she doesn’t really say anything but when I do it she sometimes goes red. Today she was joking about the sugar daddy thing and I wrote all these messages going along with the joke and she started going super super red. She giggles heaps. Laughs at things others do not or I would not. We’ve had a few fights but she always forgives me. She gets jealous of other women and she jokingly said to me “hey you can have another girlfriend I won’t mind I won’t”. What do you think? Does she like me? I do like her obviously but yeah what do you think? Vote or comment your answer!

She told her friends that she wanted a guy that would send her flowers so I told her I would do it later. I wanted to anyway cos it’s being kind

When I sent her a screenshot of me actually contacting the place she just replied with a smile and a wink. No follow up about them so I won’t push the issue cos that would be weird but what’s up with the wink? I don’t wanna ask her about the wink cos that would be weird too lol.

in our previous meetings she said that I know her well and she was like you know it all ok you got me alright when I told her that I know that she’s about making money and doesn’t really mean what she says to people

one time she said to one of her friends oh me and (my name) are dating now and she’s been really possessive of me lately too

I also have my own trauma where I think I’m gonna be played or led on so yeah if you can help out I’d appreciate it. Also - she is a content creator (not OF or anything) so she has to you know tell paying men things which she wouldn’t say really to them. Like customer service - you say how was your day when really you don’t care.

If there’s something else you’d say but there’s no option to vote for it - write in it in the comments. thanks heaps