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Search Results: choosing between confidence and looks
A Random Retelling of My 2016 (POLL inside)
Warning: This will probably be a very low quality piece. I'm feeling especially emotional, and this site is sort of an outlet for me to get out those emotions on occasion. I'll be sharing a personal experience, and it...
Anonymous
(25-29) "It's a Paradox, is it not?" A Question of Love Versus Love
Confidence, Alpha-ness, Dominance, Leadership, Personality Strength, Presence, Charisma... If you're gonna slice it one way, you're gonna have to do so every other way. It goes by many names and I'm sure you get the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ladies, Being In a Better Relationship Starts with You!
Ladies, sometimes we get caught up in this idea that our boyfriends and husbands are 100% THE PROBLEM in our relationship. Everything they do, or say, is of course wrong in the same way men sometimes feel that way about...
BeeNee
Editor Age: 43 3 Stories That Deliver Important Life Lessons
1} Think Before You Judge A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call ASAP, changed his clothes and went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy’s...
Razzle-Dazzle
Xper 6 Age: 38 Women Don't Care About Men: The Harsh Reality
When I say women don't care about men, what I really mean is that women care very little about men compared to how much men care about women. The other day a woman said on a radio interview that the harsh truth is that...
Love_Is_Eternal
Xper 6 Age: 39 No, Models Aren't Supposed to be "Sexy"... And, No, the Fashion Industry Isn't Conspiring to Make Us Starve Ourselves
#battleroyale #TeamRJ In the world of the internet, certain things are just inevitable. Like the fact that, if an argument drags on long enough, someone will eventually be compared to Hitler and/or the Nazis . And... the...
The 40 Percent Man, And Some Hard Truths About Dating
^ The 20%, or the 40% man as I hope to demonstrate What is the 80/20 theory of dating, or the theory about the 20% man? Cited from the 'examiner' webpage : Have you ever visited a popular nightclub in a major city, and...
the_rake
Editor Age: 34 Okay, We Need to Stop Telling Women They Wear Too Much Makeup
Let’s just get one thing out of the way: I have nothing against women who choose not to wear makeup. What’s included in your “getting ready routine” is your business. Pick up a mascara wand, or don’t pick up a mascara...
sparkly-crystal
Editor Age: 27 Personality or looks, what do I choose?
First I would like to say that I'm in high school, and I don't have much dating experience. Right now I'm basically doing a friends with benefits thing with this girl because her parents won't let her date anyone. While...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Four Noble Truths: A Guide to Help "Nice Guys" Even the Dating Field
Self proclaimed "nice guys" and 30 year old single losers take heed. This guide is for your benefit. I composed it after weeks of soul searching, research, and analytical thinking in order to benefit you. There are a lot...
JRICHARDS1996
Editor Age: 30 Why You Should Date an "Alternative" Woman
Often when men look at me, they immediately misjudge me. Even in an age where more and more people are choosing to get tattoos, I occasionally still hear things like "Women with tattoos are easy", or "Tattoos really ruin...
kaystove
Xper 4 Age: 32 The Ultimate Key to Happiness … Is Not Giving a Shit
Now I know what you’re thinking: Blah, blah, blah RJ, we’ve heard a hundred people by now tell us to “just not give a fuck” but it isn’t that easy, okay? We’re human, we care about shit, not all of us are sociopaths....
Why Every Man Responds on Some Level To “The Matrix”
The Matrix was a global phenomenon, but it is my belief that the film actually sparks something in the heart of every man about his own masculinity. It excites it if only on a subconscious level. This take is to bring...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 A More Neutral Look at the 'Friendzone'
The friendzone is today almost certainly the most exhaustively discussed of the relationship woes. On the Internet, it is like a loose beast and even for the most intelligent men (and women) it is a difficult concept to...
ResearcherGuy
Xper 5 Age: 32 The Slut/Stud Double Standard
Introduction: In this myTake I will give my perspective on the slut/stud double standard, what the word slut really means, whether guys are judged negatively for their sex count, female on female shaming, and if/why guys...
Bandit74
Master Age: 33 Women Want Nice/Good Guys, Not Pushovers! Men and Women Create False Friendships.
Be Clear With Your Intentions and Create Real Relationships Many, many times I hear that girls always go for the "bad boys" or the "jerks". The reality is that it isn't how they are "bad" or a "jerk that makes them...
NervousToTheMax
Xper 6 Age: 38 Pick Up Lines (That Aren't Really Pick Up Lines)
So what do we say in 2015 when we want to talk to a complete stranger? Asking for the time is doesn't cut it since everyone carries a phone. Old fashioned lines like, “Who took the curves off the road and put ‘em on...
The Sexy Feminist
How do you like my image choice? I am a fan of JW Waterhouse paintings, and couldn’t think of a better woman to depict than Flora from “Flora and the Zephyr” (1898), her story interpreted from the original ballet “Flore...
What’s the difference between confidence, insecurity, and arrogance?
So how do you define confidence and insecurity and which of the following do you think determines whether a person feels confident or insecure A) Overall frame of mind B) Skills/attributes relative to those around you?...
Bandit74
Master Age: 33 Calm Down... Don't be Jealous!
We all know that jealousy is a wasted emotion. We all tend to feel jealousy at one point or another throughout our lives and usually feel it's justified. As a former viciously-jealous female, I have learned many things...
