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I'm not sure why but I been a magnet for taken women all of my life.

taken women have always opened up and show interest in me the most just to for me to end up heartbroken later on when they announced they were taken all along

I still remember back in high school there was a girl who was taken that always used to check me out. one day while switching classes she and her boyfriend were walking in front of me and she looked back and stared at me while they held hands. is crazy how she even announced she was pregnant with his ass around that time and her preggo belly started to become more noticeable weeks later.

a year or two later the one that almost won the title as my first girlfriend revealed that she was already taken herself just when I was getting ready to meet her. I obviously burned the bridge with her because I found out that she was trying to breadcrumb out of me

in college things were not so different. girls who would walk with their S/Os on their way to class were always the once that checked me out and showed interest in me.

till then I couldnt help but to be paranoid and ask any woman who tried to click with me if she already has an S/O. however I always heard that assuming that a woman you are interested is already taken can come off as beta behavior.

That nowadays men are expected to be perfect. Like have everything.

If this is not true then why does it feel that way? All you hear is girls say he’s 6ft, got money blah blah blah.

My girlfriend is part of this problem. She expected perfection and had a million ways she judged me.

My girlfriend likes me for so many reasons. But I know for a fact initially she liked me because I have a good career. It was a deal breaker for her not meeting a guy with a good career. She also has a good career.

I guess I’m realising now that love just can’t be real as if I was some normal guy working an office job she wouldn’t have dated me. It’s all about the money with women.

It hurts when you realise that really if you didn’t have a good career (money) that your partner wouldn’t not be with you. It’s only something I’ve really focused on now.