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Personally I don't have a bad opinion on plastic surgery, as a lot of people have. I just think that if a person doesn't feel good or secure of parts of her/his body, s/he should undergo surgery, if that help s/he feeling better.

Excessive plastic surgery is something I am against, because it results unrealistic and also because it can be dangerous for people who undergo it several times.

At the same time it can be dangerous given the fact that some people to pay less go to "surgeon" who are cheap and in those cases surgery could be letal, because the surgeon is not a real one or it is a bad one, so be careful to where you go.

However, I am pro surgery if it can help people in changing their image, of course if they want to undergo it, because sometimes plastic surgery can give a big boost to people's confidence, and at the same time I find it good because there are some people who unfortunately had accidents or people who were born with some peculiar features that today are seen as ugly or unaesthetic and surgery can help them. In m y opinion what is important is to not exaggerate.

I have never thought to undergo surgery, I think I should accept me for how I look, and if I want to improve there are other ways to do it. The only thing I would try is lip filler, because it is not a surgery, it is not invasive and most of all the result is not permanent, so if I don't like the result I could dissolve the filler or wait for it to dissolve alone.

What is your opinion on this matter? Would you undergo surgery? Did you undergo surgery in the past? Do you like extreme plastic surgery or is it something you dislike?

I will share with you some pic and in a poll, you can vote if you find that well made or not and you can reply by stating your opinion.

Personally I find extreme surgery scary more than well made or badly done ( image 1 and 2), but cases like pic 3 are very natural and feel good in my opinion.

I like my boss. He is such a sweetheart! He makes eye contact when we talk, laughs/jokes with me, tries to invite me to work outings (which I usually avoid unless they're mandatory), etc. I know he's my boss, but he makes it a point to let me know he'll accept a call for help at any time of the day and wants me to call him when I'm feeling down... I joked about the latter when he first suggested it and accidentally chuckled in a sultry way, which he seemed to do in return? I felt there was some "tension" between us at that time... but that could have been my own "tension" talking.

I love that he's respectful to women regardless of looks, and I also realize that he might not be into me and is just being kind. DGMW, I'm not ugly... but I'm very aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea... I've been reminded of that multiple times since I was young. Penelope/Colin relationships, especially ones where Pen looks more like Kate or Lady Danbury than Daphne or Queen Charlotte, are uncommon. I've also noticed my coworkers (mostly the women) acting funny towards me ever since this one time he told me he liked my hair. I can't tell when I'm liked because it's so few and far between, so I don't know if they're seeing something I'm not or just being weird... don't men compliment hair?

I made the mistake of dating a coworker while we worked together years ago; I wouldn't dare pursue a relationship with a coworker now. I've also been rejected by every guy I've ever confessed to, so I'm hesitant to put myself out there. I want him to make the first move, but I'm also worried, if he feels the same way, that he's too scared to say anything to me... so I want to try to "guide" him to me. I told him a few months back that I wanted him to "not be a stranger" with me after I quit, and he's said I should let him know when I'm quitting. "Tension" made me feel he was saying it in that sort of way, and I'm thinking of revisiting that convo when I tell him I'm quitting.