How do I not let things people said effect me?

[Leemary]

People always call me ugly stupid retarded n I feel like every were I go People think that I can I stop feeling like this

[lightbulb27]

you are not ugly, you are a nice person and I wonder.. if... sensitive?

when you are a sensitive person, even a little bit of that hurts. Do you find yourself hearing things and it echos in your mind (and heart) later and days later?

Then I'd put you in the sensitive camp. Your strength lies in other areas. likely compassion, empathhy, caring. There are personalities that are abusive, lack feeling and you might draw them. So you must filter them out and learn to diminish their voices. There are techniques to reframe things, one is to find the truth. the truth sets you free.

I'm sure some people say positive things or you could find some that do... but they get drowned out. a negative in your brain is 10x stronger than a positive.

So you you must learn to fill yourself with positive voices and people. Work on your self esteem and worth. Spend time working on yourself in many ways... to be your best, there is nothing wrong with that. But also to fill yourself up with what fills you, possibly caring for others and giving to those worthy of your love and those that reciprocate it.

There is nothing wrong with how you look. Could you improve yourself, sure, we all can.

[ChiTown33]

Well let me first start by saying at no point in life will there not be mean people saying and doing mean things. But you have to feel bad for these people rather than hang your head. Because think how miserable these people must be to blast a stranger like that. Remember you're perfectly imperfect in God's eyes. He made you. And God doesn't make mistakes!

[exitseven]

You should hear what people say about me. I just dont let it bother me.

[Leemary]

Am I ugly what would you rate me 1-10

[Leemary]

That good u don't let it bother you

[bowenw]

Try to ignore evil people like that. You know you are not ugly and not stupid. It is them that are stupid for bullying you.

[Dargil]

• Not going to a complicated psychological profile.
• You are not ugly. I would gladly dance with you.
• People depreciate others to feel better about themselves.
• Ignore them and keep your own counsel.

[Hszhsjdjdjd]

Love yourselfre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Leemary]

Huh what

[DrPepper12]

'Never take suggestions from people you wouldn't go to for advice" it's really that easy! You are very pretty by the way! Great smile!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Simply by not giving a F. Practice that giving a ish.

Overtime you will get better.

[Skinleskin]

That’s how lowlife people act. It’s not about you. They’re being who they are. Avoid them.