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For example, when women meet a man, they need confirmation that other women want said man in order to want him. While men can give 2 shits if other men don't want his women (except if it's because she is a major slut) and only care about if he finds her attractive.

Men need to pass a girl's friends approving of him before she even considers him. And when in a relationship, women constantly need to show off to other girls how perfect her man is and often drags him along to take staged photos of the perfect relationship. When we look at how women talk about their partners on social media, it's often to brag about what they do or how much gifts said man gives them rather than just appreciate him as a person. And when in a relationship, a woman weighs heavily on her friend's opinion of said man when determining to stay or not.

This is further reinforce when we see how women spend thousands on hair, makeup and shoes and then parade around on social media or in public and only acknowledging praises from other women; men only get a response if they are hot and/or rich.

I have met a content creator. she is 24 years old. This is mainly via distance as she lives in another state. She streams on Twitch and she works on other platforms. We met at a party offline.

She has all these guys talking to her and some of them ask to marry her and things like this. One guy has even sent her a large gift of flowers

I asked her about the guy that sent her the flowers and she told me it is all a game and she could block him if I wanted her to and I said no to her blocking him because it’s her life.

I was a little nervous again so I asked her again and she said he’s just a friend and she showed me a text which said that he will support her on the platforms

I told her that I like her because I do and she said she does too and she will always choose me

Anyway - she says other things to him like she loves him and things like this and he’s even said to her mom that he is looking forward to meeting her mom. He is in another country

The guy is old enough to be her father and she has told me and others that she doesn’t want to be someone’s trophy wife and that she could never marry an older man because of this reason. She also said to people that older men usually have an agenda

I told her again for honesty to her the reason why I feel nervous about it is because I do like her and she told me that I must understand that it is just a game and that she needs me in her life. I have sent her some money to help support her here and there

she says I am her best friend

I take her word for it but I still don’t know what to do. I don’t care if he’s nothing to her but I just think like what if she is playing me too?

what do you think?