Search Results: how can i turn this guy on

Why is he so weird around me?

My colleague is a couple years older than me (26) and he's pretty confident speaking in our work meetings and stuff but confuses me. He sometimes won't look me in the eye while talking and will stay looking at his...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Education & Career

Do you prefer very structured events/trips or more go-with-the-flow?

Hi Guys and Gals, I host/attend a lot of events for work. They tend to be classy, structured things (even the low-key social ones). There's a dress code, specific goals (business/social/etc.) and the optics are always...

Master Age: 52

Is being on medical guardianship a turn off?

I have to be on medical guardianship due to my autism. I am very high functioning but the phycologist said I qualify for it. Which means I am not allowed to go off birth control until my mom thinks I am ready to have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What’s his problem and is this a sign he treats all girls like this?

We’re both teenagers. I met him at work, and he thought I had a crush on him because I turned red. I tried to explain that I naturally blush easily, and it was summer, really hot, and I was sweaty too. He didn’t listen....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Showing up on the first date with an eczema outbreak?

I matched with this guy on a dating app a few days ago. We hit it off well chat wise so far, so we want to meet up preferably the upcoming weekend for low stakes coffee at a cafe. Only thing is: since about a week i have...

LovelyBones13

Xper 6 Age: 30

"How to Find Mr. Right" question for a young friend?

A young friend met up with me for dinner and insisted "I want to meet my husband this year." She was very depressed bc she's on all the apps (which she showed me and ZOWIE... I had NO IDEA there were SO MANY of them) and...

Influencer Age: 52

Family & Friends

How easily do you befriend folks from the opposite gender? (More easily than folks from your gender)?

While it's always been easy for me to befriend guys regardless of the social/professional setting, yesterday was a funny little snapshot of how simple and quick it is. Leaving the party scene behind with the dust of 2025...

Master Age: 52

It feels like he is distancing but I dont know?

Me (21f) and this guy (21m) met on a dating app in Oct. I didn't find him my type so i ghosted him. Turned out he was from my uni and we met at a Halloween party his frat was holding. I still avoided him after even on...

Teaconfused_2023

Xper 2 Age: 22

Relationships

Do you believe people change or once they cheat, they will always cheat?

Never settle for a guy who makes you an option and follows too many girls! He made a choice with his actions, heart and stuck in his lustful ways lest he desires everything and will sleep with anything he doesn’t have...

incubuskatz

Xper 6 Age: 35

Are some guys just completely oblivious to what they want from a woman?

I find that some guys really turn on the charm and get a girl all caught up... only to seem surprised at the girl's reaction. Sometimes I feel like it HAS to be gaslighting, but other times I wonder... is the guy just...

Master Age: 52

Another one about my love life?

just talking about signs he has shown, one day we were like in class and he turns around and starts asking me if I have a job ( I don't, Im now in junior year or year 11 and so is he) and we go to next period which he's...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Flirting

How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?

I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Ever been repelled by a physical characteristic because someone abusive in your past had it?

If you don't get what I mean I mean like if you had a really abusive ex that had a big nose and now you're repelled by big noses because of the trauma that person caused you. Doesn't have to be an ex though could be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why everytime we see in public there’s tension?

Today I saw a guy that used to talk to in 2022. We went to one date. Things didn’t go well and we stopped talking. It ended in bad terms. He was the one who cut things off Today I saw him in public after 6 months. I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would he stare and act awkward years later?

Today I saw a guy that used to talk to in 2022. We went to one date. Things didn’t go well and we stopped talking. It ended in bad terms. Today I saw him in public after 6 months. I was walking up and he was walking down...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think he likes me?

I met with this guy almost 2 months ago and I can’t forget him and I’m not an obsessive type. I’m 23 years old and he’s 19. We just met to be fuck buddies but he turned out to be a shy and sweet guy. He barely looked at...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean when a guy acts so weird around a girl?

There’s a guy who I’ve met recently through friends and he seems to act really weird, like he’ll lock eyes with me a lot, when he first sees me acts a bit stunned like he’s forgotten what he’s saying, stutter a little,...

Anonymous

(25-29)