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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
How do I get him to kiss me before he moves across the country?
I have a colleague who is very playful and funny and always comes to my desk to talk. He’s complimented me when I get my hair done or look nice but I think he’s just a charming guy in general and he’s a reporter. I see...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he showing interest in me before he moves across the country?
I have a colleague who is very playful and funny and always comes to my desk to talk. He’s complimented me when I get my hair done or look nice but I think he’s just a charming guy in general and he’s a reporter. My...
Anonymous
(25-29) Former chubby/overweight teenagers what was your teen years like?
I’ve always been on the heavier side and it was HELL. I couldn’t wear the cute clothes the thin/slim and fit girls an wear. I struggled with body issues and never felt beautiful or attractive. Plus being tall doesn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Would you date a guy who was charged with reckless driving, recklessly endangering another person, and criminal mischief?
So a little over a year ago I was driving near a beach on a 5 mph road. This guy sped past me at 20 mph, went off the road and almost hit a family. It just pissed me off so I found him in a parking lot and ran into his...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Befriended hot girl, what do I do now?
So I befriended a beautiful woman…unintentionally. I’m in charge of supply ordering and stocking at my job and so happen to stock her department. Many times, she has been alone when I get there, which lead us to talking...
Anonymous
(36-45) Need some ex relationship advice?
So, my ex girlfriend/girl i was engaged to for 3 years have been split up For 7-8 months now. We both made a lot of mistakes and treated eachother poorly. We was on and off a lot. Well, she contacted me 3 months ago...
jordanb8989
Xper 5 Age: 34 Was in a 3 year relationship, we been split 7 months?
So, my ex girlfriend/girl i was engaged to for 3 years have been split up For 7-8 months now. We both made a lot of mistakes and treated eachother poorly. We was on and off a lot. Well, she contacted me 3 months ago...
jordanb8989
Xper 5 Age: 34 Do you think im a terrible person for what I've done?
So in July of 2024, I was driving by the beach where its 5 mph. Someone behind me got impatient and drove off the road and drove around me at about 20 mph and almost hit a family, because there are camping spaces over to...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Guys, Do you think a gal is being difficult just bc she doesn't "register" that you're hitting on her? Was this guy really being so obvious?
At a reception. My young single friend (F33 never married) spots a guy at the bar (M~49?). She casually glances over & gives me the "he's cute" look. I gesture for her to claim the empty seat next to him. She goes all...
Isn’t it strange that I get hit on less now than I did when I was overweight?
A year in a half ago I was like 217lbs and now I’m 132lbs. I feel better, healthier and I feel more confident. I am 5’5. I got hit a a lot more when I was heavier than right now. I do hit on a lot more but not enough to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I get less attention from men now that I got fit or “hotter”?
I was always a chubby girl. Been overweight my whole life. I have never once been at a healthy weight. I lost weight before but I gained it all back. Some of my family said good I don’t need to lose weight in the first...
Anonymous
(25-29) How come it takes shorter amount of time? Do anyone else recognize this?
Years ago when I was let down by a friend, I eventually cut off, it took me longer to melt throughout. Now as it has happened with another friend I went through. everything in a matter of a few days, lot shorter, and now...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 Showing up on the first date with an eczema outbreak?
I matched with this guy on a dating app a few days ago. We hit it off well chat wise so far, so we want to meet up preferably the upcoming weekend for low stakes coffee at a cafe. Only thing is: since about a week i have...
LovelyBones13
Xper 6 Age: 30 Why don’t guys ever find me gorgeous or a babe?
They always talk about how my girl pals are babes and my cousin is drop dead gorgeous. I have never been called that. Some people never called me beautiful and I’m just okay looking or plain. I’m a black tall (5’10) plus...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is your dating bottom line and has it changed or ever changed in the past?
I remember I used to get hit on or spontaneously and repeatedly approached by certain people at jobs, and I would regard all males with blatant and blanket suspicion with the theory they could be abusive, until I saw...
"How to Find Mr. Right" question for a young friend?
A young friend met up with me for dinner and insisted "I want to meet my husband this year." She was very depressed bc she's on all the apps (which she showed me and ZOWIE... I had NO IDEA there were SO MANY of them) and...
My boyfriend is blaming me for my SA?
My boyfriend is completely blaming me for my sexual assault, and it’s clearly damaging our relationship. I was sexually assaulted about one to two weeks ago. When I first told him, he blamed me, then we supposedly “moved...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people think hot women dont get approached?
Im sure they get hit on all the time. Its probably going to be by some overly confident asshole Chad that's going to leave her for the next hot thing that comes around, but they do get approached. Im not going to bother...
red324
Guru Age: 37 How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?
I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
Anonymous
(36-45) This guy im interested in is twice my age and is sending mixed signals, how do I know if he likes me?
Ok a little back story, I am 24F and I work at a family owned store with my grandparent and mother. The guy I am curious about is a frequent customer and family friend. He is in his 50's, and we will call him Paul . Now...
Anonymous
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