What is your dating bottom line and has it changed or ever changed in the past?

[jennifer_bloom]

I remember I used to get hit on or spontaneously and repeatedly approached by certain people at jobs, and I would regard all males with blatant and blanket suspicion with the theory they could be abusive, until I saw deeply established evidence they were not violent or abusive. A guy who buys you flowers, might make your life a little better, but a guy who breaks your jaw makes your life a hundred times worse, which is why my strongest decision factor was whether they had hostile or derogatory behaviours and whether they could be trusted to not act violently in any way.

[AviatorTom]

Bottom line - she is female.

Other attributes and personality are acceptable... If we get along

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[exitseven]

The bottom line is that if I start dating again my wife wil kill me.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Chayce]

See for me it's the inverse. I'm actually actively looking for a woman that's really good at boxing or muay thai while also suffering from a wide spectrum of mental issues notably extreme rage because that would be one rollercoaster of a relationship.

[Xawyx-2]

The bottom line is, if she is my type of girl, and if she likes me, I'm completely ready for dating.

[BADGER44]

no reason to be abusive zero. their just assholes. thats 2 out of 10. guys. or rareer i hope.

[DrmChsr]

It used to be that if I liked a girl I'd find her to be pretty/attractive. Now I have to find her pretty first before I can let myself like her

[Daytoday79]

Just honestly and a connection