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Why would a guy delete you and unmatch you after a first date saying it was great and we would follow up?

I thought nothing was wrong. He drove 45 min to see me We had ice cream. He hold my hands after and we hold hands throughout the night. We went to a park and he was a total gentleman. He hold me sayin he hasn’t done this...
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Would guys ruin a good thing?

Why do some guys dump a girl, when things were going great? Do they get scared of commitment or what are your guys reasons, behind this type of behaviour?
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Do guys sometimes say outlandish things to mask their true feelings when they're scared to be vulnerable?

2 years ago, I got involved with a guy who had a lot of relationship trauma. He was consistent, called and texted everyday, and put in effort, I guess, but he never took anything seriously. I never knew where we stood...
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Im in love with him but he’s unemotional?

Im in love with my friend. A lot has happen in a few short months. We almost dated but didn’t because I choked (I told him I’m commitment avoidant because I’m scared of it) and he stepped out because he doesn’t want to...
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Is he being selfish in the relationship we have?

Okay so some quick information, I’m 20F and he’s 23M, we’ve been talking for about 5 months and started seeing each other (going out on dates/sleeping over) for about 3 months. Our relationship is pretty unique because...
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I don't know what he is thinking at all. help?

ok so i have two questions. i have this guy i've been talking to for about 2 months. we haven't met yet bc we live on opposite sides of the country and neither has had the opportunity yet but we plan to next month....
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How do you cope with relationship anxiety?

Okay. Relationship anxiety/fear. Talk to me about how you deal with it. I’m so worried I’m going to end up sabotaging something good. Or at the very least take all the fun out of dating and relationships for myself if I...
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I need a genuine advice pleasee?

Help me out There is this dude i met freshman year he is a flirty who just knows what to say I liked him we started to hang out he asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I couldn't be with him just yet because it...
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Should I break up or work through the relationship?

Hi all, I love my girlfriend so much, she’s the sweetest person ever. I’m 26 and she's 27. We are together 1 year but I have to admit I really miss the game, I just want to have freedom and casual sex around the world for...
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Hi all, I love my girlfriend so much, she’s the sweetest person ever. I’m 26 and she's 27. We are together 1 year but I have to admit I really miss the game, I just want to have Show More
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Girls, Is it a good idea if a guy tells a girl prior to a date what his intentions are in like?

There’s a girl who wants to meet me in September but I was contemplating about telling her I’m trying to look for something serious. I’m older now, I’m in my 30s so my direction in life is exercising, my diet (how I stay...
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What, in your opinion, makes a man ready for marriage and kids at 20 to 30 vs. those who wait till they're 40 or even older?

I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is that!). Also, I wonder why they have the...
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I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is Show More
Money reasons. Some young couples are lucky enough to fall into large sums of money (My boyfriend sadly doesn't want to start a family until our finances are at least decent)
Accidents. In the heat of the moment, they forgot their Birth Control. The baby/babies weren't planned!
Other. I'll explain below.
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Am I really scaring away men and other people?

I'm getting ghosted, dates that ended after just a couple days or 1 month of knowing each other, 2 relationships that never leads to commitment (longest one was 3 years and then barely making it to 1 year), two men...
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Scared of commitment or it’s not actually love?

Personally I don’t believe in being scared of commitment… if you don’t want to commit to the person then they are not right and you don’t actually love them. What do you think?
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What is happening? I am in a relationship and at the same time I wanna run away like crazy and feel pain at the same time and miss him?

I want to get away, I am not exactly sure why, it's like something inside me is screaming get out. And at the same time when I go away I feel pain and lonely and he usually comes to different places to meet and we get...
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Do you get scared you will screw things up when things get serious in a relationship?

I feel like now that our relationship is getting serious, I am afraid I will do something that ruins the whole relationship. Sometimes I get these thoughts where I feel like I don't trust myself and that I could...
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I feel like my boyfriend feels trapped since I’m pregnant, do I just give him space?

Me and my boyfriend have been together a while and he was happy I was pregnant. But since it’s gotten very real he seems to be ignoring me. I don’t know how I’m handling it so well. He’s ignored me for 1 week so far and I...
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Is he stringing me along?

My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago (me 35 and him 50 years old), after almost a year of dating/living together. I wanted marriage, and he was scared of commitment, claimed I wasn't "the one" and broke up with me. I...
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Does your boyfriend comitt fast or is scared of commitment?

I had boyfriend that neevr wanted do anything serious never meet family not live together just be with mom & go to trips with anyone but me. And I found a new boyfriend but it’s long distance & he isn’t afraid talk of...
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Am I overthinking his transparency or is he being clear and I'm just dumb?

I've been talking to a guy for four months and things seem to be going well. We spend a lot of time together given that it's an ldr. Neither of us wants to rush things but on my end, I know that I am falling for him. Last...
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Girls, Should I listen to my head or my heart?

So, there’s 2 guys: guy 1: cares about me a lot, makes me happy, can cook, clean, look after himself, he’s kind and caring and ticks all the boxes but he likes to deal with his problems on his own and never really asks...
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