Search Results: when a husband and wife cheat

Why is it mainly women blaming the other woman for her man's infidelity?

The mistress gets called a homewrecker and the Spanish version for that is ''La Roba Maridos'' literally translated as ''The husband thief''. Even on a Spanish soap opera that was set many years ago, only the woman would...

Marblesxoxo

Xper 4 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Why do eastern europen women cheat so much when they come to uk?

I work with a lot of eastern europens at my work mainly Polish, Ukrainian, Romanian etc. a lot of them have moved to UK as a couple and work together. Most the men are extremely loyal and hard working and won't even look...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Food & Beverage

Welsh Pancakes, Pancakes The Proper Way.

In a previous pancake question, a few people confessed they use a shop bought pancake mix. I admire their bravery in admitting that, over here that's a worse sin than cheating on your husband with his dad and brothers....

purplepoppy

Influencer Age: 26

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Relationships

Would this be forgivable or is the damage too deep?

I was wondering what you think of this true story I'm about to share. I once read online about a married, white couple that were expecting their first child. When the day came, the woman gave birth to a dark-skinned baby....

Marblesxoxo

Xper 4 Age: 26

Relationships

Are men more insecure when the woman they are dating/married to makes more money then them or vice versa?

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was...

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I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

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Is it normal to be disgusted at how some things were in the past?

Things that I'm disgusted with and won't repeat nor ever tolerate: - My parents' turbulent marriage, where there would even be physical altercations. If a wife screams, the husband would threaten to make her shut up. I...

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Family & Friends

How do you deal with people like this?

Ones a guy he’s very nice to people that he likes and he’s very charismatic but he can burn a bridge as fast as he can build one. He’s very extreme right wing and he coordinates his people to do his bidding and he can be...

Anonymous

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Relationships

What would you do if you found out your partner was liking and commenting opposite sex pictures?

You found out your husband or wife has been secretly commenting on opposite sex pictures , would you consider that cheating? Would you break up with them over it?

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Society & Politics

Democrats the first election deniers are still at it?

And as we can all see, the very “CLoSE” race they kept telling us about was also proven to be NOT close at all. Democrats always lying to their supporters it’s like the lying cheating abusing husband and the abused wife...

Anonymous

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And as we can all see, the very “CLoSE” race they kept telling us about was also proven to be NOT close at all. Democrats always lying to their supporters it’s like the lying cheating

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Relationships

Is it okay for a young wife to cheat with with her attractive supervisor and keep her infidelity secret from husband if it would get her a promotion?

Kelley1

Yoda Age: 21

Break Up & Divorce

I think I'm done with my 22 year marriage. Is it too soon to give up or am I doing the right thing?

This is a throw away account. I am 40 years old. I have been with my husband since I was 16 years old. I lost my virginity to him and we married at 18. We had two children 4 years into our marriage. Throughout the first...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Why would a wife make a conscious choice to look the other way at her husbands affair?

A) Hasn't worked in 20 years and spouces finances will triple in approx 3 to 5 years? B) Low self esteem and doesn't give a shit. C) To keep the family intact and avoid humiliation? Even if the kids know. D) Is playing...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Why would a wife tolerate cheating and let her daughters suffer?

You know he's been in a long term affair and so do your teenage daughters. Noone confronts him but everyone is mad. 1 daughter doesn't speak to dad and had to go to therapy. Dad thinks it because he made them move and she...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Flirting or friendly banter?

My husband and I have couple friends who we spend a lot of time with. We went on holiday to France recently in a campervan together, for example, and they lived with us for a bit. The male friend and I are very similar...

Anonymous

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Relationships

I suspect my sister-in-law's best friend is flirting with my husband, and my SIL seems to be encouraging it. Am I overreacting?

My sister-in-law (SIL), my husband’s half-sister, has been bringing her friend Chloe over to use our pool, but Chloe has been acting inappropriately toward my husband. She used to wear a one-piece but now shows up in a...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Would an Indian wife leave her husband if she's tolerated his cheating for years?

Non traditional Indian man Americanized over 20 years, semi americanized Indian SAHM wife that still wears Indian clothing has the dot yet wears shorts and tee shirts. He's been cheating on her for almost a decade and she...

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Break Up & Divorce

Have you ever loved someone but lost attraction towards them? What did you do?

I know most people don’t stay attractive forever , another reason why couples decide to cheat or split up with each other , but have you ever loved someone and then all of a sudden you realize you are no longer really...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Relationships

Would you rather be a first choice or a second choice for a man?

This girl posted text messages on Facebook from a woman who’s been messaging her husband. Her husband of course screenshot the messages and let the wife speak to her. It was a girl from her husband past that he referred...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do several men expect a woman to stay and remain loyal to a cheater?

Even when it's a wife that's filing for divorce after the husband cheats (valid reason to divorce), several male posters still expected her to stay. Or even questioned what she did for him to cheat. Or if a woman cheats...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Why do people cheat on their partner with someone less attractive?

Seems weird, but I saw it happen more than once - a woman I know cheated on her husband with a much more overweight, balding guy; and likewise another guy I knows cheated on his gorgeous wife with a total butterface. My...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28