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1 mo

Why does it hurt so much to like someone you’re unsure about?

i am currently fancying a guy but i don't know if he has a girlfriend or if he likes me. but it seems like he's that kind of guy who has a girlfriend, but i don't really know. he's very secretive and he's a coworker. my...
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Am I just lazy or is ADHD and burnout hurting my job performance?

I am often told my work is not good enough even though I really try and want to be motivated. I am a custodian at a high school for context. Last year when I first started I caught on quickly. However over this school...
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Why do I feel like I’ll be alone forever and never truly loved?

'Life is pain' It just hurts, no one understands how desperately I need love. I have tried all the ways to keep my mind out of love or relationship or just someone. I never felt wanted and now it's a burden
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Why does this site feel dominated by misogynistic, woman-hating men?

Don't get me wrong I've spoken to some amazing men on this site who are open to honest and civil discussions but I've come to have a love hate relationship with this site manly because a lot of the men on this site are so...
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Why do some people think there is unconditional love in relationships?

As much as I love my dear husband and he's a great father to our 11 month-old baby boy, there are obvious boundaries and limits that should never be crossed. Loving a partner or spouse unconditionally wouldn't be healthy...
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As a trans woman, how do I cope with feeling so hated and dehumanized?

It bothers me so much how hated I am and it always has. Cis women are so lucky they get to be beautiful and feminine and loved. They never have to feel like they’re monsters. I transitioned at age 14 in 2008 in East...
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2 mo

Is he just busy and hurting, or actually not interested in me?

Exchanged #'s with a guy I'd see around. We texted for over a week. He said he's desperate for connection and having trouble making friends. I invited him to an event. He said he could make himself available". OK I...
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Why do little things hurt so much?

Ok, so, like, this morning I was putting wood in the wood stove 'cuz it's still friggen cold in the mornings but not as cold as it has been all friggen winter like I bitched about so I won't bitch about it quite as much...
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Why is my crush oversharing embarrassing stories with me?

We've been talking for a couple days now and he's told me that 'i make him remember stories' and he sent me an old picture of himself after he fell off his scooter and hurt himself, yesterday he told me 4 extremely...
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Why did my coworker’s comment at work upset me so much?

Usually I don’t care what anyone says for the most part but I am very sensitive person and not wanting I got hurt for what this guy said I may have overthink about it but now I’m sitting like thinking why should be even...
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2 mo

How can I build confidence in dating as a shy, introverted guy?

I am 23 yo male and i had one relationship, we were young and it all was kinda awkward. Since then nothing. The truth is i am kinda picky. Few years ago there was one girl i really liked, things were going well but then...
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Why do some women get angry when a man who they friend zoned, chooses to move on and find a girlfriend?

I would like to preface this with, Yes i know i did most of this to my self, and i was even more stupid for letting it carry on for 5 years. There is a coworker i was interested in for years. she's 29 now, athletic,...
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If humans evolved so much, why can’t we get rid of discrimination?

I have come to terms with that we have so much discrimination in our society that a lot of it has been normalised. But things are changing at a crazy rate, the rich do still discriminate against the poor but not...
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Why do some strangers seem to hate me instantly for no reason?

Not knowing me at all but telling me i hate u you're so stupid fuk u etc. Youd expect such hate or anger to come from someone hurt or wronged but not a complete stranger. Ps she's a girl
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Who has had the most positive influence on your life and why?

For me - It’s my dad. I don’t talk much of him, but he’s the foundation of all the good that exists in me. All I can say is that I feel like I am one of the luckiest women existing in this world because I have had him....
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Why do ex's get triggered when the people they left are better off without them?

I can give a few examples off this. My best friend's wife left him a few years ago. Not only is he happy, he is married to someone who is in my opinion superior in every way to his ex, and the reason his ex left him, I'm...
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2 mo

He demeaned me, rejected me, devalued me but offered to take me home?

After disliking me on our date he offered to take me home or pay for my uber home… why not just leave… afterwards he ghosted me wanted nothing to do with me… I was nothing to him wants nothing to do with me and he...
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Why would my boyfriend lie about moving to another state and not explain?

We’ve been on and off for about 4 years and when we were off it was never on bad terms we would still be talking just not together until recently we had gotten back together for 7 months but ended things recently because...
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