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A girl might be like he’s the perfect guy - 6 months in dating she is used to him, he is not novelty, no matter how hot + rich etc...

That ‘other’ guy she sees on social media with the abs is novelty as she never had that.

Like with me apart from fame + defined six pack I do have every gift a man can have and I’m a nice guy. I can see my girlfriend getting more and more comfortable around me. She no longer compliments my tall height and ultra luxury things my family own or my looks, career as much. Like I am hung because I’m so fat but I’m only a bit longer than average.
She’s getting over all of it. I can see it.

Women want more and more, they want the novelty.

Best to just get happiness from yourself as no girl will make you happy.

Getting a girlfriend has made me realise, it’s only about your relationship with yourself that matters no other girl will complete or fulfil you.

As men we’re born we have to build ourselves from the ground up.

Insane expectations put on us, because to appeal to women you have to be the ultra masculine acecho type.
Rich, muscly, tall, big d1ck and good in 🛏️, tough. That’s what all women want, my girlfriend too which shows they don’t really like the man for him. You got to be perfect.

Like if a man is struggling they won’t pick that guy, just let him die and evolve out. You have to be a winner, as to women it’s only like the top 5% of men make it into her sight.

I enjoy being a man but it’s so difficult. Because it’s a game no matter what level you are at you cannot win at. The competition is unreal and social media makes it unplayable as I can just not build this insane as I cannot build those insane definition physiques. I struggled to get a pretty girlfriend I can’t lie. Men are now just viewed as like worthless.

I've notice a trend among white males. They believe that anyone, that is not a white male, (including white women) is considered a DEI hire. They believe said person was handed that position to fill a quota and is not fit for the job, which should be granted to a white male. In addition, white males also consider shows "WOKE" if the main protagonist is anything but a white male. If a show has white female as the lead, it's considered WOKE as well. Does anyone not see that this is the only group of people that want to have the best jobs and be the only faces shown on tv/movies?

Whoopi Goldberg on TRUMP & DEI: “When you really look up and see who this was for, who benefited from it — it was not Black folks...” pic.twitter.com/mKyQRJimvp

— Unlimited L's (@unlimited_ls) February 19, 2026

Knight of the Seven Kingdoms is just about White boys in plate armor going hard asf for honour pic.twitter.com/v84kaWDk5B

— Severus Chud (@SeverusChud) February 16, 2026

I know some women will not want to reply to this, but I know me and a lot of men will honestly want to know the answer to this.
​Is this statement correct: 'Women love to feel the strength of a man she feels safe around and fully trusts.'
​After reflecting on things, I realized I am honestly a bit confused about how much assertiveness women actually prefer behind closed doors. I know everyone is different, but when it comes to that connection, do women generally lean towards a high-intensity, take-charge energy or slow, gentle romance?
​From my experience in one-off encounters, women prefer the first option. However, when in a relationship, this isn't really the case, and slow and passionate is preferred (according to my last relationship anyway).
​In my head, a person will go purely for excitement and what feels best in a one-off encounter, as there are no repercussions and you most likely won't see that person again. Therefore, you go purely for the most thrilling dynamic for you. Is there a shame/shyness that comes later in relationships? Do women actually prefer that bolder, more intense energy?
​Is this correct? And if so, why?
​I've added a poll below, but if you're comfortable please add a comment.

Would you fight for others right for freedom?

Iran has been authoritarian for 40 years, the link below documents some of how strict and brutul they have been. I's all men by the way... oppressing women. If want to summarize what this war ends up doing... it frees women. Some men cannot handle that because of their religious viewpoints. The root issue being... security/insecurity.

Example below... blinding protestors. That is unheard of in the west, but practice in Iran... if not worse.. actually executing people.

https://news.berkeley.edu/2024/03/21/more-than-120-protesters-blinded-by-iranian-agents-probe-confirms/

... So this is why Iran cheers when their leaders are taken out. They have tried to fight to no avail. Would you fight to support others freedom?

PS this post is not about the complexity of the war... nuclear weapons, Israel, or other complexities of the issue. It's about freedom, and what it might take to establish such freedoms in an oppressive part of the world. That's right... might take your boots on the ground, your $ into the govts pocket, your support, etc..

There may be a lot of consternation about the war initiated by USA against Iran recently... how it was done, why it was done, is it legal, and lastly... the many lives now paying the price for the decision.