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He randomly broke up with me out of no where but begged to keep sleeping together.

I only found out recently that he has this friendship. When we split he kept saying I’ll eventually sleep with someone else. I think I could get anyone I want. He said not better than you but the same

Then after a month of doing that he came back asking for a relationship again. A week later said nah I just wanna keep sleeping together.

Was he telling the truth he just didn’t like this relationship or was it for that friendship?

We broke up five months ago due to long distance. Went no contact for two months. Now we’ve talked every day for the last three months and finally got together last night with friends.

We were together 2 years. During that time, We had great sexual chemistry but he never ate me out, nor tried. So I was taken back when he did last night. He seems to have changed but I’m just more confused than ever.

My ex and I went through a lot of fights. Regardless, we managed to make it work because of our strong emotions. Just before our breakup, it reached a point to where he was calling me names and bringing up my family, basically no respect left on his part & coming at me for little things like me saying “thanks” instead of “thank you.” I blew up on him eventually & mentally checked out. 1 day we got into a fight and he said he’d block me (something he does when he’s mad). I then accepted some requests from guys- i was really mad-on social media (didn’t message them and deleted them later. He found out and hell broke and also found platonic msgs between a male friend I’ve known for 5 years. Those msgs included funny memes. I stopped being friends w/ this guy for him. He asked to check my phone, I didn’t agree because he should trust me & wouldn’t want him to think it’s ok to check my phone whenever he feels the need in the future. We ended up breaking up. We kinda kept in touch though to reconcile. Weeks turned into months leading up to us meeting in person. As we were chatting, he told me his expectations which included he checks my phone, I agreed. Then he asks to see my male followers to ask how I know them. I told him some are friends (since HS) and he didn’t like that. He said he doesn’t like his girlfriend to have male friends & I should take off whoever he doesn’t like. I had a reaction and didn’t let him check my phone so ofc he had major issues. We never got back together but now we’re surfacing the relationship again he told me of the same expectations. I’m really conflicted and don’t know if getting back with given expectations are normal or not. Is getting back a good idea?