My ex broke up with me a year ago cause we both were immature and needed growing to do and understand eachother more. He works in oilfield, so it was hard to get use to him being gone.
We never cheated or been abusive towards eachother either.
Months after the breakup, he said he tried to reach out to me but he couldn’t cause I’ve blocked him. I had to so I can get over the breakup
I’ve unblocked him a month ago and not reached out to him, BUT HE REACHED OUT TO ME
I was shock cause I was excited to hear from him again, but I had to keep my cool and not tell him how I feel.. just incase he didn’t feel the same way.
He wanted to know how I was doing, what I have going on in my life, and to tell me he still cares, thinking of me and still have feelings for me.
I’ve told him the same, however, we can’t be together right now cause he lives long distance now and he can’t move to the city I live it due to his kids.
He kept saying he still cares about me, I’m always in the back of his mind, and he still has feelings for me.
Is there still hope for a relationship in the future or am I getting the wrong idea?
We never cheated or been abusive towards eachother either.
Months after the breakup, he said he tried to reach out to me but he couldn’t cause I’ve blocked him. I had to so I can get over the breakup
I’ve unblocked him a month ago and not reached out to him, BUT HE REACHED OUT TO ME
I was shock cause I was excited to hear from him again, but I had to keep my cool and not tell him how I feel.. just incase he didn’t feel the same way.
He wanted to know how I was doing, what I have going on in my life, and to tell me he still cares, thinking of me and still have feelings for me.
I’ve told him the same, however, we can’t be together right now cause he lives long distance now and he can’t move to the city I live it due to his kids.
He kept saying he still cares about me, I’m always in the back of his mind, and he still has feelings for me.
Is there still hope for a relationship in the future or am I getting the wrong idea?
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Ehhhh. This is a tough situation to gauge. You said he broke up with you because you both were immature and needed to grow. But then he turns around and still reached out to you. That's dumper's remorse. The person who broke it off with you is still feeling like they want you.
He has definitely expressed how much he still cares, and I know you do too. But you both have situations that you feel like won't work in a relationship right now. I honestly am not sure if it's worth waiting around for, or if you should just move on to something better.
Honestly depends if he moves to be with you. We have seen many couples who just won't work so far away but work great when together.
Sometimes it takes another to get over someone. You will still care for them just you need things for you.
My wife needed a break during her first pregnancy and we invited a lesbian to join her. She still loves a naughty 3 some when pregnant like she is now.
Let us know if you want some help getting your mind off him.