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Search Results: do you need to work at a relationship
Why if I am in a happy committed relationship, I still fantasize about my coworker?
Hi ;) I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. We get along great and have amazing chemistry in all areas. He is a good man, hardworking, he is great in bed, he is generous among other things. A couple a months...
Anonymous
(36-45) Boyfriend doesn’t seem to put in much effort. Am I hard to please or is he lazy?
We’ve been together for a little over 6 months and I’ve been concerned with the amount of effort he’s been putting into the relationship. So my love language is gift giving and quality time. I tend to get him things here...
Anonymous
(30-35) She said she forgave?
So I got into a fught with this girl I've been talking too I few months I'm very fond of her and she's sweet and she motivates me a lot but I'm not really in a good mental space for a relationship and I need to work on...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I in the wrong ( relationship advice ) ?
I have a relationship of 12 years , I don’t live with him and we don’t have a kid together. We live in the same city ( 7mins away ) We see each other ever weekend Friday till Monday we get a hotel to get away since he...
Anonymous
(30-35) How does he feel being ghosted/ no contact?
I recently ended a rocky relationship ( 7 years) he was truly amazing, he done nothing wrong but we were long distance and life didn’t always work in our favour. I’m going through a lot right now nursing a family member...
Anonymous
(36-45) My ex have a new girlfriend?
Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. Two weeks ago we had sex, and hung out with eachother. I told him i dont think ill be able to be friends with him because i still love him. He said he loves me but he needs to fix...
Anonymous
(25-29) Would this be a good analogy of how bullying feels like?
I've never experienced it so I came up with this analogy of how bullying is like: - A country suddenly declares war on another country for no valid reason, destroys all its cities, takes away territories as a result of...
Anonymous
(18-24) What to do about this? My boyfriend mentioned the potential of us not working out and I may be pregnant?
So me and my boyfriend are happy together as far as I know. We say I love you often, we get along well with each other's friends and family, we've also talked a lot about the future. Well, there is a chance right now that...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I'm asexual and don't want to be in a relationship, but I also get jealous when others date?
Hi, so I have a problem that I've been dealing with for a long time. I was wondering if I could get some opinions about this, or if anyone can relate to my experience. I don't have the desire to date or be in a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)
Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...
Anonymous
(30-35) Working things out with ex girlfriend?
I've been dating this girl since May and everything was going really well. We both are very invested in our spiritual lives and thats where we found attraction and common ground with each other. We had one big friction...
Whatitdo25
Xper 2 Age: 28 Do we become a bit similar to the people we love?
My music taste used to be eclectic- but lately, I have been savoring Jazz and enjoying it a lot, it’s my brother’s favorite music genre. I guess, I am becoming a bit like my brother. Same was true, when I was in a...
Is he just not that into me?
I met a guy on a dating app back in August and went on many dates with him where we had a lot of fun and got to know each other. He kissed me but we never took it further because I made it clear I want an exclusive...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I secure my needs without damaging my relationship?
I'm 46 years old. I have a good job. I have two adult children living separately and one teenager at home. My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. I love him, but from the beginning, I knew he was not a...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How to handle a difficult coworker?
I have a somewhat new coworker who started at the start of this year. She gives me more work than what I can manage regarding her behaviour. I work in the disability industry and she continues to annoy/upset clients...
Anonymous
(25-29) Emotionally unavailable after 3 years?
I’ve explained, in every way I can think of, what my needs are when it comes to a relationship. Nothing extreme… but after 3 years of trying different methods, different words, simple, complex, spelled out letter by...
Megandem85
Xper 2 Age: 41 Girls, If a girl decides not to be with me b/c of circumstances that prevent her from offering a commitment, am I selfish to not want to be friends?
I know this girl loves me but she says she is not able to be in a relationship with me. She still flirts and tries to get sexual. It’s hot and cold. I told her I respect her decision but need to heal before I can resume...
Anonymous
(30-35) What is the allure of men/woman dating younger people?
This is the endless debate of an older man who likes to dates only young girls or older women and young men). I mean I had heard soe many different opinions as the reason why but I there is not like the ultimate reason...
kitty71
Guru Age: 55 Why he out of sudden started ignoring me even tho he was the one who started it?
It’s a 2 yr relationship we had little issues w communicating bcs we both work a lot when i was saying to him that he’s not giving me attention he wasn’t actually paying attention or care to what i say he kept ignoring me...
21userala
Xper 1 Age: 23 How can my boyfriend get rid of his anger issues?
My boyfriend can become pretty aggressive sometimes lol he never HURT me before but he can get rough when we're fighting but that's because of our height and strength difference, which scares me. Not sure why he has so...
Lisia
Explorer Age: 22 