I'm 46 years old. I have a good job. I have two adult children living separately and one teenager at home. My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. I love him, but from the beginning, I knew he was not a person to satisfy all my needs.
As my previous relationship wasn't good, I was happy that I met such a good guy and didn't care about the thrill. But lately, it's something that keeps me bothered all the time.
I had to take care of my own life when I was 17. I ran away from my abusive partner with two small kids when I was 20. I always had to be strong, responsible, and caring.
My husband is a calm and gentle person. I'm quite the opposite, the volcano of emotions and feelings. Inside, I long for a strong person, stronger than me, to give me a feeling of security. And I know my husband can't change himself.
How to make it all work together? I don't want to damage my relationship. Sorry if this text is a mess...
2. He gave up counselling after the first session (we tried four years ago) saying we don't need it.
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