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I was constantly told how lazy and incompetant having long hair will inevitably make you as a male. Every family gathering meant a new hair cut so to apease old people... mostly just old men. The women were fine with it. Which its not the worst thing really but as I came out of it all I look back at how wrong of a direction that set me. My fucking hair determined so damn much it seems. I do not care in the slightest what the next person says or thinks of me now, but it took me forever to prove to myself my look has nothing to do with that.

This might just be me but i really like it when a person is so real around me that they are not afraid to reveal they’re insecure or vulnerable about things. Makes me see their humanity come out and allows me to empathize with them more. I also tend to respect people who aren’t afraid of showing them either.

Examples can include: dudes expressing more emotions than they usually do and aren’t shy with them, people getting emotional over movies or tv shows, unafraid of admitting their vices, people admitting what they’re afraid of, general faults they know they have. Just things that might open them up to judgement by people but not caring if people do judge them if that makes sense.

now it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t work on them and try to improve but in general i just like people being themselves completely around me.